Today on the show, I’m talking to the host of the Rethinking Manhood podcast, Destyn Land. Destyn and I discuss men and sex. Sounds simple but when you start to layer in shame, silence, and how by grade 3 you’re already comparing penis size–it gets a lot more complicated. I first saw Destyn’s work when a friend shared one of his posts on Instagram. It was a beautiful piece about men and how society has created this pressure to prove how “straight” you are. This could be by catcalling women or making homophobic comments. Destyn’s posts are always thoughtful, well researched and when I found out he had a podcast, I just had to listen.

Resources from the Show

Destyn Land: @destynforgreatness

Rethinking Manhood Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3bQw3DWTRuCmlGXFvYrVya?si=c26149d4a7474d36

Instagram: @rethinkingmanhood 

Boys and Sex by Peggy Orenstein: https://www.peggyorenstein.com/boysandsex

Euphoria on Crave

Heartstopper on Netflix and Comics

Bi-erasure definition: https://www.glaad.org/bisexual

The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by bell hooks