In this heart-opening episode, dating coach Lilli Bewley joins Aypril Porter to dive deep into what it truly takes to call in healthy, lasting love. They explore why dating success isn’t about "doing it right," but about healing the patterns that block intimacy, self-trust, and self-worth. Lilli shares her journey from self-abandonment to thriving in love — and how every woman can shift her experience of dating and partnership by reconnecting to her true self.

• Dating coach with over 10 years of experience in personal development
• Creator of the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz
• Helps single, successful women find real, lasting love (even after divorce, heartbreak, or long-term singleness)
• Specializes in nervous system healing, self-alignment, and repatterning relationship dynamics
• Believes dating is not about performance, but about deep self-remembrance

Lilli shares her path of:

• Growing up without models of healthy love
• Repeating patterns of self-abandonment and toxic relationships
• Doing the deep inner work to repattern trauma-based responses
• Learning to align her nervous system with love, safety, and worthiness
• Meeting her partner organically after years of healing her inner landscape
• Helping hundreds of women discover their authentic love blueprint

• Why affirmations and mindset work alone often don't heal love patterns
• Understanding the nervous system's role in dating decisions
• How attachment wounds impact relationship choices
• The importance of aligning internally before trying to "manifest" love
• Why the dating apps can be "Trigger Town" — and how they can also be a growth portal
• How to discern true resonance versus chasing validation

• Overview of the Chill Woman, Fortress Woman, Goddess Woman, and Magnetic Woman
• How these archetypes represent stages of growth and healing
• Why true magnetism comes from embodiment, not perfectionism
• Healing the tension between independence and vulnerability
• Recognizing how family, societal, and generational imprints shape dating patterns

Take the Quiz: www.datingarchetype.com

Website: www.lillibewley.com

Instagram: @lillibewley

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