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The Keep Him Podcast

Candice Katherine Febrile

100 episodes

6 hours ago

DM your Host Directly I’m doing something different this week… I opened a private Substack space called The Keep Him Collective. Basically, a group chat for women building life on their own terms. I’ll be sharing stories I’ve never shared publicly... think ex-fiance and separation tea, secret dating era, courtrooms, meeting my ex’s new partner, an old daycare worker that gave me weird vibes… all of it 🤪 If you’ve ever wanted the “best friend on the couch at 11pm” version of me, she’s in there...

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DM your Host Directly I’m doing something different this week… I opened a private Substack space called The Keep Him Collective. Basically, a group chat for women building life on their own terms. I’ll be sharing stories I’ve never shared publicly... think ex-fiance and separation tea, secret dating era, courtrooms, meeting my ex’s new partner, an old daycare worker that gave me weird vibes… all of it 🤪 If you’ve ever wanted the “best friend on the couch at 11pm” version of me, she’s in there...

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Personal Journals

Society & Culture,

Self-Improvement,

Episodes (20/100)

The Keep Him Podcast

I’m Finally Telling the Stories I Couldn’t Share…

DM your Host Directly I’m doing something different this week… I opened a private Substack space called The Keep Him Collective. Basically, a group chat for women building life on their own terms. I’ll be sharing stories I’ve never shared publicly... think ex-fiance and separation tea, secret dating era, courtrooms, meeting my ex’s new partner, an old daycare worker that gave me weird vibes… all of it 🤪 If you’ve ever wanted the “best friend on the couch at 11pm” version of me, she’s in there...

5 days ago

12 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Why Being a Single Mom Isn’t Lonely, It’s Liberating!

DM your Host Directly They say single moms are lonely, struggling, or missing something, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. In this empowering episode, I share the real story behind solo motherhood: freedom, purpose, and deep fulfillment. Whether you’re a single mom by choice (SMBC), newly solo, or simply curious about what independent motherhood actually looks like, this conversation will challenge stereotypes and help you see why doing life on your own terms is the ultimate power ...

1 week ago

16 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

How to Decenter Men Without Hating Them

DM your Host Directly So many people confuse decentering men with hating men... but that’s not what this is about. In this episode, I break down what it really means to stop placing men at the center of our choices, our timing, and our worth. We’ll talk about how decentering men changes motherhood, dating, and even how we raise our sons. This isn’t about bitterness. It’s about sovereignty. It’s about shifting the cultural narrative so women (and future generations) are free to build lives and...

1 month ago

16 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

The End of the Nuclear Family? What the Rise of Solo Motherhood Means for Our Future

DM your Host Directly Are we witnessing the end of the "nuclear family" as we know it? In today’s episode, I dive into the rise of solo motherhood by choice and why more women are choosing sovereignty, legacy, and freedom over waiting to be “picked.” We’ll explore: ✨ Why the nuclear family model was never universal. ✨ How fertility technology + financial independence are rewriting timelines. ✨ What kids actually need to thrive (hint: it’s not two parents at any cost). ✨ The myths about single...

1 month ago

16 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

From Fear to Clarity: My Process for Choosing Single Motherhood

DM your Host Directly Deciding to become a single mom by choice can feel huge, emotional, and at times overwhelming. How do you know you’re making the right decision... and how do you make sure you won’t regret it later? In this episode, I share the exact process I used before taking the leap into solo motherhood. From getting clear on your why, to facing your fears head-on, to imagining your future in both directions, I’ll walk you through the steps that gave me clarity, peace, and confidenc...

1 month ago

19 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Breaking Generational Trauma as a Single Mom by Choice

DM your Host Directly I wasn’t just choosing motherhood when I became a single mom by choice... I was choosing to break cycles! This episode is all about how I’m rewriting generational patterns and building a legacy of freedom, joy, and sovereignty. In this episode, I share how I’m breaking generational trauma and negative patterns through the way I’m raising my kids, building legacy, and redefining family on my own terms. From parenting with presence to raising kids that know they're awesome...

1 month ago

26 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Keep Him: The Movement Starts Here

DM your Host Directly This isn’t just another podcast, it’s the start of a movement. In episode one, I share why I chose to build my family and my freedom without waiting for a man, and what “Keep Him” really means. If you’ve ever felt like you were “too much,” “too ambitious,” or “too independent,” this episode will flip that script. Keep Him is about women like us keeping our power, our legacy, and our joy. Hit play and step into the revolution 👯‍♀️🎙️🔥 https://www.keephimmovement.com/...

2 months ago

21 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Episode 0: Welcome to Keep Him (Podcast Teaser)

DM your Host Directly Welcome to Keep Him, the podcast that’s flipping the script on women’s lives, motherhood, and female sovereignty. Instead of keeping him, we're keeping everything else. This teaser gives you a first taste of what’s to come. I’m Candice Katherine Febrile. I'm a single mom by choice, entrepreneur, and movement builder. I created Keep Him for women who are ready to choose themselves, build family and freedom on their own terms, and stop waiting for permission to live fully....

2 months ago

The Keep Him Podcast

Big Life Update: Homeschooling, Solo Mom Moves & The Keep Him Era Begins

DM your Host Directly Life lately has been a whirlwind... from stepping fully into homeschooling, to shaping the next chapter of my family’s story, to teasing something BIG I’ve been quietly building: the Keep Him Movement. This episode is part update, part behind-the-scenes, part heart-to-heart because building life, legacy, and motherhood on your own terms is no small thing. If you’ve been curious about what’s next (and why now), this one’s for you. 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast for more episo...

2 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Teaching My Kids to Be Nontraditional: Solo Motherhood, Freedom & Redefining Family

DM your Host Directly I’m raising my kids to be nontraditional... not to rebel, but to remind them that life doesn’t have to follow society’s outdated script. As a single mom by choice, I’ve built a family and a life outside the mold, and I want my kids to know they can, too. In this episode, I share: Why traditional “milestones” aren’t the only path to happinessHow I normalize independence and freedom of choice for my kidsThe role of representation in raising confident, resilient childrenPra...

2 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

The Rules I Had to Break to Build This Life | Single Mom by Choice & Modern Motherhood

DM your Host Directly The life I have today didn’t come from following the rules... it came from breaking them. In this video, I’m sharing the exact beliefs, traditions, and “shoulds” I had to let go of to create a life and family fully on my own terms. As a single mom by choice, I’ve navigated judgment, pushback, and the pressure to follow a traditional path. But choosing to become the matriarch of my own story, and lead my life without waiting for permission...changed everything. If y...

2 months ago

14 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Stop Waiting. Start Mothering. (For the Women Who Are Ready Now)

DM your Host Directly Are you secretly dreaming about becoming a single mom by choice... but keep putting it off? Maybe you’re waiting for the right time, more clarity, or even outside validation. But what if you didn’t need permission? This episode is your wake-up call... a rally cry for women who know they’re meant to be mothers and are done waiting. We’re diving deep into what it means to choose solo motherhood with intention, confidence, and power. Whether you’re just starting to explore ...

3 months ago

22 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Decentering Men: What Happened When I Chose Myself Instead of Waiting for Him

DM your Host Directly The biggest shift in my life didn’t come from a relationship. It came from the moment I stopped centering men... and started choosing me. This video is for the woman who’s tired of waiting. Tired of shrinking. Tired of organizing her life around someone who hasn’t even arrived yet (or isn’t showing up how she deserves). I talk about: 💥 The moment I realized I was still living for male validation 💫 What happened when I chose myself, my healing, and my kids 💡 The unexpecte...

4 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

What I want my kids to know: Choosing SMBC

DM your Host Directly JOIN US THIS WEDNESDAY for a LIVE webinar discussing all things SMBC: https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/smbc-webinar I didn’t choose this life because it was easy. I chose it because I knew you were worth everything. This video is for my kids...one day, when they ask why I did it alone, or wonder if they were ever “missing” something. They weren’t. They were the reason. I became a single mom by choice because I knew deep in my bones that love doesn’t have to follo...

4 months ago

19 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

“What Do You Tell Them About Their Dad?” (Here’s What I Say…)

DM your Host Directly People love asking how I explain the absence of a father to my kids… So here it is: what I say, why I say it, and how I handle the questions (from strangers and from my children) with honesty, confidence, and love. This is the part no one prepares you for when you choose to become a single mom by choice, but I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. If you’re navigating these conversations (or thinking about becoming an SMBC) this one’s for you. 💛 👇 Ready for support? ...

5 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

If I Could Start My SMBC Journey Over… Here's What I Wish I Knew

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice but feeling overwhelmed by all the unknowns? I’ve been there. In this video, I’m sharing the raw truth about what I’d do differently if I could go back to the very beginning of my SMBC journey... from mindset shifts and emotional prep to practical decisions around sperm banks, finances, and support systems. This isn’t just about regret, it’s about empowering you with the insight I wish I had. Whether you’re still deciding or...

5 months ago

21 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

He Told Her She’d Never Be on Vogue… Then She Was

DM your Host Directly Let’s talk about that Justin Bieber + Hailey story... and what it reveals about the toxic messaging women have been fed for generations. In this video, I break down how women are taught to shrink themselves, accept bare-minimum treatment from men, and ignore their own intuition. All while being shamed for choosing an empowered path like becoming a single mom by choice (SMBC). Why is it that this kind of male behavior gets normalized, but deciding to have a baby on your o...

5 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Stuff No One Talks About as a Single Mom by Choice

DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice? I’ve been there. Twice. In this video, I’m sharing the real talk I wish someone gave me: the things no one tells you, the parts I wasn’t ready for, and the stuff I wouldn’t trade for the world. If you're even thinking about going this route, watch this first. 👇 Ready for support? FREE RESOURCE: Grab my Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming an SMBC! https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/5-things-you-need-to-know-before-taking-th...

5 months ago

40 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

Unfiltered Girl Talk: The Truth About My Parenting Style (and Why It's Not for Everyone)

DM your Host Directly This isn't your typical picture-perfect motherhood story. In today’s girl talk, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like raising my kids as a single mom by choice. The messy moments. The real choices. The parenting style that definitely isn't for everyone, and why I've stopped apologizing for it. ✨ If you're navigating solo motherhood, tough decisions, or just trying to trust yourself more, this one’s for you. Inside this episode: Why I had to unlearn ...

6 months ago

20 minutes

The Keep Him Podcast

In the Waiting: How to Handle the In-Between on Your SMBC Journey

DM your Host Directly This one's for the woman who's waiting. For results. For answers. For a sign. Whether you're just starting to explore solo motherhood or already deep in the process, the in-between can feel like the hardest part. In this episode, I’m sharing: Why this phase is so emotional and how to stay groundedWhat you can do while you're waiting (and what to stop forcing)The quiet prep that actually moves you forwardMy personal update + how I’m moving through my own waiting seasonYou...

6 months ago

14 minutes