When an abuser is named what we don’t realiseis all the other peoplewho now get victimised. Its only human natureWhenever we’re in painTo look outside ourselvesFor someone else to blame Although without intentionthis causes untold painCountless innocent familiesare left with guilt and shame Guilt by associationis how some families feelmothers in particularget the raw end of the deal It’s assumed they let it happenit’s believed they must have knownno benefit of doubtor compassion ever shown For mothers who are innocentwe must try to understandHow much they need to be believedand offered a helping hand. Vilifying motherswill only make them weakFor improvement what we need isto encourage them to speak Because there are no answersthis crime is unexplainableWe gain no understandingwhich makes closure unobtainable The families of abusersalways seem to pay for the crimethe abuser may get a sentencebut the families do the time It’s time we offered help to allnow we know what’s involvedInnocents are sufferingthat must be resolved This crime leaves many victimsand breaks many heartsWith far too many innocentswhose lives are torn apart Think on this the next timeyou hear a story on the newsThere is more involvedthan what you see in a story of abuse