Why do some couples allow strip club visits? In this episode, I discuss a conversation with my wife about respecting marriage boundaries and what the Bible says about lust. Drawing from Jesus's teaching on adultery in the heart and Proverbs 5:15-23 about being intoxicated with your wife, I explore why men are visual, the difference between being caught off guard by temptation versus seeking it out, and the importance of dying to self. Learn about biblical marriage boundaries, avoiding lustful temptation, and why respecting the covenant of marriage matters. I share personal insights on denying fleshly instincts, staying away from situations that compromise your marriage, and living according to biblical principles. Christian marriage advice on purity, faithfulness, and honoring your spouse. Blog Post Here.

Why does marriage commitment matter for society? In this episode, I explore the social impact of divorce, unfaithfulness in relationships, and what the Bible says about staying together. Drawing from Proverbs 23:27-28 and Proverbs 5:3-5, I discuss how sexual immorality spreads through communities, the challenge of long-term marriage commitment, and why self-control matters. I share personal observations about divorce trends in church communities and issue an urgent call for relationship integrity. Learn biblical perspectives on marriage, communication with your spouse, and how stronger marriages create better communities. Important: I'm not advocating staying in abusive relationships—this is about genuine commitment when both partners want to work on their marriage. Christian marriage advice, relationship wisdom, and faith-based perspectives on commitment. Recorded October 29, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

My wife and I often wonder why so many marriages end in divorce. Today I'm sharing what I believe is the real reason: marriage is a divine institution under spiritual attack. We live in a culture that says you don't need marriage, sleep with whoever you want, move from partner to partner—and the kids suffer for it. I talk about why communication (especially about finances and temptation) saved my marriage, the importance of vetting someone before you commit, what the Bible says about intimacy in marriage (Corinthians), and why you need to approach relationships from a biblical perspective instead of a secular one. No marriage is perfect—mine isn't—but understanding God's design and actually talking to your spouse changes everything. Also: happy birthday to my wife. October 28th, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

Had to borrow someone's car recently and it reminded me: most people on the road don't actually own their car—the bank does. Yeah, the new car was nice with Bluetooth and all the bells and whistles, but at what cost? I'd rather take the bus and save cash than be in debt for something that goes down in value the second you drive it off the lot. Today I'm talking about why I'm avoiding car payments, the one thing worth going into debt for (a house), the 25% rule for "toys" with motors, and where that interest money could go instead (retirement, index funds, actually building wealth). My car broke down and I'm taking public transportation until we save enough to buy our next vehicle in cash. Financial freedom over fancy features. Blog Post Here. 

After dinner with my kids, I got to thinking about something I learned substitute teaching years ago: kids are way smarter than we give them credit for. Every age has a mind that's thinking, learning, analyzing—and we miss out when we dismiss young voices. This applies to the workplace too. From "Stop Work Authority" to servant leadership, I talk about why we need to listen up and down the hierarchy, why veterans shouldn't dismiss new workers, and why new workers shouldn't think they know everything. Age doesn't determine the value of an idea. Let's build a culture where everyone's voice matters. October 22nd, 2025. Blog Post Here. 

Just finished an incredible conversation with Melanie Sandoval, a doula in South Texas, for episode 94 of Corpus Christi Originals. We talked about the breakdown of the family system, teen pregnancy in our community, why marriage-first matters, men's mental health in Hispanic culture, narcissism in relationships and social media, and why I believe a biblical perspective on marriage and family is what society needs. Melanie's story is inspiring—diagnosed with a brain tumor at 18 weeks pregnant, now running her own doula agency with three kids. A real conversation about what holds communities together and what's tearing them apart. Blog Post Here 

Day 5 bringing you multiple topics: Why creativity has no age limit, how your audience can help you discover your true mission, watching my daughter grow up and wanting makeup for the first time, realizing a neighborhood kid might need a father figure, the easy trap of gossip and how to avoid it, and why vetting collaborators matters for your podcast or business. Plus updates on Corpus Christi Originals podcast and how my values shape everything I create. October 19th, 2025. JesusHilarioH.com

How do you handle a colleague who sees everything you do as competition? In this episode, I open up about dealing with a backstabbing coworker, the patterns I learned from narcissistic family members, and why setting boundaries is essential for your mental health. If you've ever felt like you have to walk on eggshells at work, this one's for you. Stay true to yourself—it's not your job to make others feel better about their insecurities. jesushilarioh.com

Day 3 - October 17th, 2025 Why do we still think we have to pick just one table? In high school, you had to choose your group - but I wanted a little bit from each table. I like heavy metal AND hip-hop. I connect with car culture AND cyclists. In this episode, I talk about how this "pick a table" mentality is still holding us back as adults, and how I'm building the Corpus Christi Originals podcast to break down those barriers. Different people from different walks of life, all welcome at the same table. This daily practice is inspired by Seth Godin's approach to blogging - if you don't ship it, people can't see it. Let me know what you think in the comments! Blog post: jesushilarioh.com️ Corpus Christi Originals Podcast  

In Day 2 of my daily vlog and podcast series, I talk about goals — setting them, missing them, and getting back up. I share lessons learned from sports, marriage, and raising children with faith and discipline. Missing a goal isn’t failure; it’s part of growth. I also touch on Ephesians 5, love, responsibility, and how to live out biblical principles in everyday life. This journey is about consistency, reflection, and becoming better each day. Blog Post HereSupport the Channel

After 13 years of marriage, I’ve learned that love isn’t just a feeling — it’s a decision, a discipline, and a reflection of growth. In this episode, I open up about what marriage has taught me: the power of communication, handling finances together, and learning to be selfless when it’s not easy. This episode is for anyone looking to grow in love, faith, and understanding — whether you’re married, dating, or preparing for that next step. Share your thoughts in the comments or on socials: What’s one thing marriage or relationships have taught you?  Blog Post Here  

#90 | Escaping Narcissistic Abuse: My Journey to No Contact and Healing--In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my experience growing up with a narcissistic parent, being an ADHD target, and how I finally went no contact. I share insights on narcissistic supply, isolation, low self-esteem, and the impact on my marriage and family. This video is for anyone trying to understand narcissism and toxic family dynamics.--Timestamps0:00 – Intro & Life Update0:41 – Narcissistic Abuse & ADHD1:09 – Isolation from My Narcissistic Parent1:54 – Going No Contact2:24 – Where My Low Self-Esteem Came From2:55 – Reconnecting with Mom as a Teen3:29 – How Narcissists Set the Hook4:02 – Proverbs & Naivety4:22 – Marriage, Triangulation, & Awakening5:28 – She Tried to Use My Kids Too6:02 – The Narcissist’s Empty Life6:42 – Why I Had to Go No Contact7:18 – Reclaiming My Voice & Identity8:14 – The Pushback I Faced9:02 – The Fear of Being Exposed9:43 – Strength Through God10:14 – The Christian Narcissist10:56 – Seeking God First11:22 – Final Thoughts--Relate Blog Post: https://jesushilarioh.com   --Related Video Episode: https://youtu.be/KRneWTdVaIc --Follow me on IG & TikTok: @JesusHilarioH Support the channel by liking, sharing, and subscribing! --#NarcissisticAbuse #NoContact #HealingJourney #MentalHealthAwareness

This ONE Habit Saved Our Marriage & Finances! My wife and I used to argue over money—until we discovered the power of joint bank accounts, budgeting together, and clear communication. In this video, I share how becoming debt-free, combining finances, and being transparent saved our marriage and helped us grow closer. Whether you're newlyweds or 10 years in, these tips can help build a stronger relationship and financial future. #MarriageTips #DebtFreeJourney #FinancialFreedom #CouplesGoals

Feeling stuck in the same cycle — work, home, repeat? I’ve been there. In this video, I share how I beat the stress, anxiety, and hopelessness of the 9–5 grind through financial discipline, having an emergency fund, and gaining a marketable skill. Whether you're in debt, feeling stuck, or just burned out, this is for you. Learn how to take back your peace, one decision at a time. #DebtFreeJourney #WorkLifeBalance #FinancialFreedom #MentalHealthMatters

How do YOU react when life says “no”? In this real-talk video, I share lessons on emotional maturity, rejection, parenting, debt freedom, and workplace struggles—all centered around learning how to handle disappointment and setbacks. Whether it's a missed opportunity, financial pressure, or gym etiquette, how you handle "no" reveals everything about your character and future. If you’re tired of reacting with frustration or entitlement, and you want to grow in patience, discipline, and financial peace, this video is for you. Watch now and let me know in the comments: How do YOU handle a “no”? #LifeAdvice #HandleRejection #PersonalGrowth #FinancialFreedom #DebtFreeJourney #EmotionalMaturity #MindsetMatters #Motivation #RealTalk #SelfDevelopment

Shocking Truth Discover why I left church but still live by the Bible! In this raw, honest video, I share my journey from Catholic roots in South Texas to a non-denominational faith, and why I now follow Jesus Christ ✝️ without the church system. Explore how the Book of Proverbs guides my life, the toxicity I found in church culture , and why true fellowship matters more than a building. Hit play to rethink faith, wisdom, and a biblical lifestyle! #FaithJourney #BibleStudy #JesusChrist #ChristianLife #BibleBeliever #Christianity

In this episode of The Jesus Hilario Podcast, I dive into the complexities of boundaries, narcissism, and living with ADHD. Sharing my personal experiences growing up in South Texas as part of a large Hispanic family, I explore the challenges of navigating cultural expectations, emotional abuse, and the importance of setting boundaries with narcissistic family members. Join me as I reflect on breaking toxic cycles and fostering healthier relationships. Support the channel: jesushilarioh.com/support 

In this episode, I share insights on recognizing and managing narcissistic behaviors while navigating life with ADHD. From understanding the importance of setting personal boundaries to identifying how narcissists test limits in relationships, I dive into real-life examples and lessons learned. Whether it’s family, friends, or work relationships, this episode emphasizes standing firm and reclaiming your space with confidence.   __SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL__: https://jesushilarioh.com/support

In Episode 83 of The Jesus Hilario Podcast, I open up about life with ADHD, tackling the constant overwhelm of managing work, family, kids, and personal goals. From the unique challenges of my mind’s wiring to practical strategies like making lists, working out, and resetting priorities, this episode is a candid look at thriving amidst chaos. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or want insight into life with ADHD, this one's for you!  Support the podcast: jesushilarioh.com/support   

In this episode, I share my personal story of going no contact with my narcissistic mother. I discuss the challenges, emotional toll, and the liberating journey toward healing and self-discovery. Learn how setting boundaries has transformed my life, parenting, and relationships, and why protecting my kids from toxic dynamics is a priority.  Support the podcast: jesushilarioh.com/support