
On December 31, I went to a photo studio to get my parents' gift. I also got to witness a fight.
For most fights, either we’re in them, or we’ve picked sides before the debate takes place. If my colleague and I got in a fight, as much as I’d try to, I wouldn’t be able to tell my best friend what went down without painting it in a certain light, with my experience and outlook on it.
In the sequin pillow fight, I was just standing there, experiencing a non-scripted debate between two people. It was an interesting experience and I'm sharing 2 main takeaways with you, one of which is a life-changing lesson from one of my favorite books, Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High.
P.S. The audio at 02:22 is from Stacey Silva's fiancé Florian Sukaj (from 90 Day Fiancé). He's Albanian and is, umm, explaining Christmas and New Years in Albania. I've included the video on YouTube, his facial expressions make it even better.
The 90 Day Fiancé clip used in the video belongs to respective owners and I or this channel does not claim any right over it.
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