Relationships are a HUGE feature in our everyday lives that are continuously showing us aspects of ourselves. I've learned so much from the relationships around me that I think it is helpful to share so these experiences,  we all can come to the realization that our relationships are a reflection of us, of our self value. If you're experiencing a tough relationship, step back from it and make an assessment on if it's for your greatest good; If it's helping you to grow, to learn, to become more of your true self. At some point these people in our lives should be helping us to grow our self value, and we cannot let others attitudes, responses, opinions or personalities change who we are. We have to have the foundation underneath us and a backbone to look at these relationships in the perspective they deserve.