We all have our unique journey, set of skills, experiences, emotional & mental natures, personalities and lessons to learn. I think we all get a little caught up in life - a little too caught up in what others may expect of us, of what we may expect of ourselves, and not giving ourselves the allowance of the cycles and lessons we came here with to help us learn and grow. I believe in the cycles and balancing of life's pillars - physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Sometimes we may have years where we experience one aspect more than the others and build that part of ourselves, but we need to allow ourselves to move on. We need to allow ourselves to learn new things about...us, dive deeper into other aspects of ourselves so we can begin to put the pieces back together. So we can learn the lessons we panned out for ourselves to make us whole. Remembering that this life is FOR us, not against us. All the hardship is to build us up and help us to realize what we are capable of, to go after our dreams and know that our journey and interests are unique to us.