In this heart-open episode, Abi and Alex get real about the reality of becoming a stepmum. From feeling like an outsider in your own home to being unsure how (or when) to discipline children who aren’t your own, they unpack the emotional complexities of forging a bond without overstepping boundaries. Along the way, they share survival tips—like how ‘kill the ants’ (automatic negative thoughts) has helped with anxiety—and reflect on what’s worked, what still feels impossible, and why a bit of humour (and a lot of patience) helps. It’s a vulnerable and validating conversation for anyone in a blended family. The big truth? No one gets it right all the time—and that’s okay.