In this episode of "The Humble Throne," Todd Robatin delves into the art of maintaining accountability without resorting to intimidation. Discover how true leadership balances strength with softness, fostering a culture of excellence that doesn't breed anxiety. Todd explores the power of humble leadership to enforce accountability through clarity and support, rather than coercion. Learn how to guide your team back to their best selves with empathy and respect, transforming accountability into a tool for growth and alignment. Tune in to redefine your approach to leadership and create a more supportive and effective team environment.

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Welcome back to the humble throne. Where leadership isn't a performance, it's a relationship. I'm Todd Robatin and this is episode nine, accountability without intimidation. Because holding people to a standard shouldn't mean holding them in fear. Today, we'll talk about how we lead with both strength and softness. How we build cultures of excellence without breeding anxiety and how humility isn't the opposite of accountability, it's the foundation of it. Let's be honest, most leaders struggle with accountability. They either swing way too hard using control, guilt, and tension, or they swing way too soft, avoiding conflict and settling for underperformance at every turn. But what if there's a third way? What if humble leadership could enforce accountability with clarity, not coercion? Because accountability isn't about punishment. It's about alignment. It's about helping people return to their best, not reminding them of their worst. Here's what accountability with intimidation sounds like. You messed up again. Don't disappoint me. Fix this, fast. There's a lot of tension there. But here's what accountability with humility sounds like. Let's walk through what happened. I believe you can do better and I'll help if you want. What's your plan to move forward with integrity on this one? You see, it's the same expectation, but there's a very distinct difference in emotional climate. In accountability with humility, respect stays in the conversation, while shame exits the building. And when people feel safe, they don't just admit mistakes, they learn from them, and they're willing to take on the support to change their actions. You know, a department head I worked with had a brilliant employee whose work just started slipping. They were late on deadlines. Their work quality was becoming lower and lower, and the tension in the office just continued to grow. People were gossiping behind their back. They didn't want to address the issue, but they knew that something was wrong. But this department head, rather than just issue a reprimand, they scheduled a quiet one-on-one and said to the employee, I've noticed a change. Are you okay? How can we kind of reset some things and get back on the right track? And that conversation unlocked a treasure trove of transparency that the leader was not ready to hear, but had to. Turns out the employee was burnt out and overwhelmed beyond measure. But with support and structure, not threats. They started to turn things around and the entire dynamic changed. Because accountability, everybody always thinks it has to be this demanding factor. You have to hit your deadline. You have to hit your budget. You have to have to have to have to do all of these things. But accountability doesn't mean removing the empathy component, but it does mean guiding people back to their excellence. back to their full potential and what you know as a leader they can accomplish with the right support and respect in place. And here's the result. The employee in this situation didn't just improve and get back on track, they became a culture builder. Someone that instead of being gossiped about at the water cooler or in the break room or after hours on social media, They became the person that was lifting everyone else up because they felt seen, heard,...