The Highly Sensitive Woman | Confidence | Set Boundaries | Self-acceptance | Find Your Purpose | Self-esteem
Allyssya Gossett
39 episodes
1 day ago
Do you have a hard time accepting yourself? Have trouble fitting in and think there’s something wrong with you? Do you regularly feel resentment toward others? Feel misunderstood, especially when your emotions are heightened?
I’m thrilled you’re here! This podcast will help you calm the internal chatter, set boundaries, and celebrate how you were created so you can build confidence and cultivate the true connections you crave.
Hi, my name is Allyssya and I’m a Highly Sensitive Woman. For decades, I struggled to believe I am worthy of taking up space in the world. I listened to society’s rules for how I “should” be or feel, I made myself small to accommodate others, and I tried to put myself in a box just to fit in. I finally realized if I wanted peace and to be understood, I needed to accept who I am and show that amazing woman to others.
I learned to challenge those old beliefs, stop worrying so much about what others think of me, and step outside my comfort zone so I could confidently live a life I created instead of one chosen for me.
If you’re ready to let go of self-doubt, find your voice, and live with internal peace and bold confidence, grab your cozy blanket and get comfy, it’s time to connect with someone just like you!
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Do you have a hard time accepting yourself? Have trouble fitting in and think there’s something wrong with you? Do you regularly feel resentment toward others? Feel misunderstood, especially when your emotions are heightened?
I’m thrilled you’re here! This podcast will help you calm the internal chatter, set boundaries, and celebrate how you were created so you can build confidence and cultivate the true connections you crave.
Hi, my name is Allyssya and I’m a Highly Sensitive Woman. For decades, I struggled to believe I am worthy of taking up space in the world. I listened to society’s rules for how I “should” be or feel, I made myself small to accommodate others, and I tried to put myself in a box just to fit in. I finally realized if I wanted peace and to be understood, I needed to accept who I am and show that amazing woman to others.
I learned to challenge those old beliefs, stop worrying so much about what others think of me, and step outside my comfort zone so I could confidently live a life I created instead of one chosen for me.
If you’re ready to let go of self-doubt, find your voice, and live with internal peace and bold confidence, grab your cozy blanket and get comfy, it’s time to connect with someone just like you!
28 | How Self-Criticism Is Quietly Draining Your Confidence
The Highly Sensitive Woman | Confidence | Set Boundaries | Self-acceptance | Find Your Purpose | Self-esteem
13 minutes
2 months ago
28 | How Self-Criticism Is Quietly Draining Your Confidence
Have you ever tried to use the wrong tool for the job? It might work for a while, but eventually things fall apart. The tool itself isn’t broken; it’s just being used in a way for which it wasn’t designed.
That’s exactly what happens for highly sensitive women when we try to operate like the other 80% of the population. Instead of honoring the way we’re wired, we push ourselves to fit in, and when it doesn’t work, we turn on ourselves with criticism.
In this episode of The Highly Sensitive Woman, I’m exploring how self-criticism quietly drains your confidence, why it shows up so often for HSPs, and what it costs us emotionally, practically, and relationally. Most importantly, I’ll share how you can begin shifting that inner voice from criticism to curiosity, and from self-doubt to self-trust.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
🌟 Why using the wrong “tool” is the perfect metaphor for self-criticism
🌟 The sneaky ways self-criticism convinces us it’s helpful
🌟 The hidden costs of misusing your sensitivity
🌟 A practical reframe to quiet your critical voice and rebuild confidence
🌟 Simple steps to honor your sensitivity and thrive
If you’re ready to stop misusing your strengths and start honoring the way you’re designed, this episode will give you both encouragement and the practical steps to begin.
Want to connect and learn more about quieting the critical voice and building confidence from a place of self-compassion?
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Ready to begin your journey of self-acceptance?
➡️ Let’s discover what’s getting in the way and create a plan that feels right for you. Message me at info@lifecoachallyssya.com.
The Highly Sensitive Woman | Confidence | Set Boundaries | Self-acceptance | Find Your Purpose | Self-esteem
Do you have a hard time accepting yourself? Have trouble fitting in and think there’s something wrong with you? Do you regularly feel resentment toward others? Feel misunderstood, especially when your emotions are heightened?
I’m thrilled you’re here! This podcast will help you calm the internal chatter, set boundaries, and celebrate how you were created so you can build confidence and cultivate the true connections you crave.
Hi, my name is Allyssya and I’m a Highly Sensitive Woman. For decades, I struggled to believe I am worthy of taking up space in the world. I listened to society’s rules for how I “should” be or feel, I made myself small to accommodate others, and I tried to put myself in a box just to fit in. I finally realized if I wanted peace and to be understood, I needed to accept who I am and show that amazing woman to others.
I learned to challenge those old beliefs, stop worrying so much about what others think of me, and step outside my comfort zone so I could confidently live a life I created instead of one chosen for me.
If you’re ready to let go of self-doubt, find your voice, and live with internal peace and bold confidence, grab your cozy blanket and get comfy, it’s time to connect with someone just like you!
