10 Healthy Dating Rules (No More “Make Him Chase You”)

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The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast

Kindall D.

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10 Healthy Dating Rules (No More “Make Him Chase You”)

The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast

20 minutes 52 seconds

1 week ago

10 Healthy Dating Rules (No More “Make Him Chase You”)

ALIGNED DATING VS DATING GAMES

Tired of dating “rules” that feel like games? This episode flips the script. You’ll learn 10 healthy dating rules that help you align with emotionally mature men—plus the ALIGN Checklist, a tool you can use after every date to stay grounded and choose better.

So much modern dating advice teaches women to perform for validation instead of aligning with partners who actually fit. But good men don’t play games—and they won’t stick around for them either.

In this video, I’ll show you:

✅ Why scarcity of good, mature men is real (and how to filter better)

✅ 10 aligned dating rules that create clarity instead of confusion

✅ The ALIGN Checklist (Authenticity, Lifestyle, Integrity, Growth, Needs)

✅ Scripts and post-date questions to keep anxious attachment in check

Whether you’re dating again after heartbreak, navigating the apps, or simply tired of situationships, these rules will help you stop auditioning and start aligning.

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