The Go-To Podcast for Christian Families Who Want to Rewrite Their Legacy!
Do you ever wonder why you parent the way you do? Why, no matter how hard you try, you still lose your patience, react instead of respond, or fall into the same family conflicts you swore you’d avoid? Do you see patterns of dysfunction, chronic stress, or unhealthy relationship dynamics in your home?
✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. There is hope, healing, and a new way forward. ✨
I’m Danielle Alvarez Greer, Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, and creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit™, and I’m here to help you break generational cycles and build a strong, faith-filled family.
Inside The Happy Family Coach Podcast, you’ll discover how to:
✔ Heal past wounds and parent with wisdom, grace, and discernment
✔ Strengthen your marriage and family relationships through biblical principles
✔ Set healthy boundaries and navigate conflict with love and respect
✔ Resolve conflict biblically—without blame, shame, or avoidance
✔ Communicate effectively with your spouse and children
✔ Equip your kids with the tools to handle emotions and disagreements in a Christ-centered way
✔ Recognize the “Unhappy Kid Triangle™” and step into healthier relationships using The Happy Kid Toolkit™
✔ Walk in confidence, knowing God is guiding your family’s growth
Join me as we explore faith-based family transformation with practical tools, real-life strategies, and biblical truth—trusting God’s wisdom to lead the way.
👨👩👧👦 Ready to create a home filled with peace, joy, and purpose? Hit subscribe and let’s dive in!
📲 Connect with me in my Facebook group and on social media for even more family resources!
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The Go-To Podcast for Christian Families Who Want to Rewrite Their Legacy!
Do you ever wonder why you parent the way you do? Why, no matter how hard you try, you still lose your patience, react instead of respond, or fall into the same family conflicts you swore you’d avoid? Do you see patterns of dysfunction, chronic stress, or unhealthy relationship dynamics in your home?
✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. There is hope, healing, and a new way forward. ✨
I’m Danielle Alvarez Greer, Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, and creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit™, and I’m here to help you break generational cycles and build a strong, faith-filled family.
Inside The Happy Family Coach Podcast, you’ll discover how to:
✔ Heal past wounds and parent with wisdom, grace, and discernment
✔ Strengthen your marriage and family relationships through biblical principles
✔ Set healthy boundaries and navigate conflict with love and respect
✔ Resolve conflict biblically—without blame, shame, or avoidance
✔ Communicate effectively with your spouse and children
✔ Equip your kids with the tools to handle emotions and disagreements in a Christ-centered way
✔ Recognize the “Unhappy Kid Triangle™” and step into healthier relationships using The Happy Kid Toolkit™
✔ Walk in confidence, knowing God is guiding your family’s growth
Join me as we explore faith-based family transformation with practical tools, real-life strategies, and biblical truth—trusting God’s wisdom to lead the way.
👨👩👧👦 Ready to create a home filled with peace, joy, and purpose? Hit subscribe and let’s dive in!
📲 Connect with me in my Facebook group and on social media for even more family resources!
69. Planks, Specks, and Real Change: What Jesus Really Meant About Judgment and Healing
The Happy Family Coach Podcast - Break Generational Cycles of Dysfunction, Heal Past Wounds, Transform Your Faith, Learn Rela
50 minutes 34 seconds
3 months ago
69. Planks, Specks, and Real Change: What Jesus Really Meant About Judgment and Healing
What if the person you’re blaming in your life right now is actually the mirror God is using to heal you?
In this episode, we’re diving deep into Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:1–5—about planks, specks, and the kind of heart work that leads to real change. I share part of my personal story, including how I spent years blaming others for how I felt, how I didn’t know Jesus during most of my first marriage, and how I eventually came to understand that healing begins with me. Through the lens of The Peacemaker by Ken Sande, the Unhappy Kid Triangle, and the power of biblical counseling, we explore how judgment, blame, and control keep us stuck—and how Jesus sets us free.
You’ll learn how to:
Recognize your default role in conflict (Blaming Bully, Bossy Helper, or Helpless Baby)
Own your part in emotional and relational breakdowns
Take the plank out of your own eye first (and what that really means)
Heal core beliefs and lies that keep you trapped in cycles of pain
Use confession, humility, and gospel-centered wisdom to restore peace
This episode is for anyone navigating conflict in marriage, parenting, friendships, or church life—and ready to grow in emotional and spiritual maturity.
📘 Mentioned in this episode:
The Peacemaker by Ken Sande + Relational Wisdom 360 (RW360.org)
Take the free ”Discover Your Go-To Position On The Unhappy Kid Triangle” quiz here
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The Happy Family Coach Podcast - Break Generational Cycles of Dysfunction, Heal Past Wounds, Transform Your Faith, Learn Rela
The Go-To Podcast for Christian Families Who Want to Rewrite Their Legacy!
Do you ever wonder why you parent the way you do? Why, no matter how hard you try, you still lose your patience, react instead of respond, or fall into the same family conflicts you swore you’d avoid? Do you see patterns of dysfunction, chronic stress, or unhealthy relationship dynamics in your home?
✨ You don’t have to stay stuck. There is hope, healing, and a new way forward. ✨
I’m Danielle Alvarez Greer, Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, and creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit™, and I’m here to help you break generational cycles and build a strong, faith-filled family.
Inside The Happy Family Coach Podcast, you’ll discover how to:
✔ Heal past wounds and parent with wisdom, grace, and discernment
✔ Strengthen your marriage and family relationships through biblical principles
✔ Set healthy boundaries and navigate conflict with love and respect
✔ Resolve conflict biblically—without blame, shame, or avoidance
✔ Communicate effectively with your spouse and children
✔ Equip your kids with the tools to handle emotions and disagreements in a Christ-centered way
✔ Recognize the “Unhappy Kid Triangle™” and step into healthier relationships using The Happy Kid Toolkit™
✔ Walk in confidence, knowing God is guiding your family’s growth
Join me as we explore faith-based family transformation with practical tools, real-life strategies, and biblical truth—trusting God’s wisdom to lead the way.
👨👩👧👦 Ready to create a home filled with peace, joy, and purpose? Hit subscribe and let’s dive in!
📲 Connect with me in my Facebook group and on social media for even more family resources!
