Halfway through summer and already feeling the rush of back-to-school and end-of-year deadlines? In this episode of the H₂ Leader Summer Series, Alan Briggs and Jonathan Collier challenge the “grind-only” mentality by uncovering the power of relational leadership over mere transactions. You’ll learn: The difference between transactional (BNI-style) and relational (Coharbor-style) approaches How a high-trust culture drives better engagement, retention, and results The 3 Cs every leader needs—Curiosity, Care, and Consistency—and how to practice them Real-world signs your organization is drifting into “just manage” mode Reflection questions to help you shift from “What can they do for me?” to “How can I serve them?” Whether you lead a small team or a global enterprise, you’ll come away equipped to strengthen trust, spark engagement, and multiply your impact—one authentic connection at a time. Show Notes Welcome & Summer Check-in Mid-summer realities: schools shopping in July, transactional everywhere Why relational leadership matters now Two Networking Models Transactional: “Get leads, hit quotas” (BNI-style) Relational: “Get to know the person first” (Coharbor-style) Why Trust Trumps Transactions As goes the leader, so goes the culture Real-life boardroom example: cold, closed vs. warm, open Signals of Low-Trust vs. High-Trust Cultures Do people feel safe to speak up? Are values just on the wall, or lived daily? Celebration vs. checkbox mentality The 3 Cs of Relational Leadership Curiosity: Ask what’s really on people’s minds Care: Show genuine concern for the human, not just the role Consistency: Do your values and words match your actions—every day Practical Steps to Shift Check your own inbox: person or task? Communicate context + clarity + candor Use “three strikes” principle: when a tool or process fails repeatedly, pick up the phone Reflection Questions How relational is my current leadership? Where am I defaulting to transactions over relationships? Who needs more of my presence (not just my direction)? Resources & Links Anti-Burnout ⇒ https://a.co/d/89z1Vrr The Sabbatical Journey ⇒ https://a.co/d/i5dXSLS How to Subscribe & Review If you enjoyed this episode, please: Subscribe to “Stay Forth Leadership” on Apple Podcasts Rate & Review—your five stars help others find the show! Share with a friend or colleague who’s ready to lead from relationship, not just transaction