Welcome to a poignant episode of the Grief and Belief podcast, featuring Mikkele Daybell, who offers her unique perspective as the older sister to Grant, whose story was previously shared by their mother, April Gallier, in episode 16. Mikkele, now 25, grew up in Springville, Utah, taking on a significant caregiving role for Grant from a young age, including managing his G-tube and medications and even babysitting by nine years old. She lovingly describes Grant as a brother who, despite communication challenges, expressed himself through actions and was a constant, supportive presence at her volleyball games.
Mikkele recounts Grant's lifelong health struggles, which included frequent illnesses and infections, ultimately leading to his passing in 2017 when she was 17 years old. She vividly recalls the emotional drive to the hospital and the heartbreaking decision for her parents to sign a Do Not Resuscitate order, a moment when other people's "normal lives" seemed so distant from her family's profound grief. The family found comfort in singing Grant's favorite song, "Follow the Prophet," which fittingly opened his funeral service.
After Grant's death, Mikkele initially faced a loss of purpose, feeling the void left by her extensive caregiving responsibilities. However, her experience profoundly shaped her path, inspiring her to become a special education teacher and to create watercolor portraits and Christ-centered artwork, which she now sees as part of her life's mission. Her story beautifully illustrates how navigating deep grief can lead to a renewed sense of purpose and a strengthened connection to one's beliefs.
Resources: Faceless by Mikkele
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