In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, hosts Clayton Greene, Chris Pappalardo, and Amy Kavanaugh dive into the world of youth sports — the wins, the worries, and what it all means for families. From undefeated soccer seasons to overcommitted schedules, the trio unpacks how competition, comparison, and cultural pressure can shape the way we raise our kids.
They discuss both the pitfalls and the potential of youth sports — teamwork, discipline, leadership, and humility — and how to keep the focus on character formation rather than performance. The conversation also explores the fine line between healthy comparison and envy, and how parents can set better rhythms by remembering their “why.”
Takeaways
Youth sports can teach teamwork, perseverance, and leadership when kept in perspective.
Overcommitment and competition often stem from a cultural obsession with winning.
Parents’ desire to give their kids every opportunity can unintentionally create pressure.
Comparison isn’t always negative — it can lead to growth, gratitude, and humility.
Not every child’s interest has to become a lifelong pursuit.
Asking “Why are we doing this?” helps families set boundaries and keep priorities straight.
Don’t live through your kids — let your kids live.
Chapters
00:00 — Introduction
02:00 — The undefeated season dilemma
05:00 — What’s gone wrong with youth sports?
07:00 — Parents, pressure, and overcommitment
10:00 — The obsession with winning
14:00 — The good side: teamwork, leadership, discipline
18:00 — The idol of potential
22:00 — Comparison vs. growth
28:00 — Competition, humility, and joy
30:00 — Remembering your “why”
32:00 — Final reflections and encouragement