In this episode of The GoodKind Podcast, Clayton Greene, Chris Pappalardo, and Amy Kavanaugh dive into the meaning of friendship and why it matters so deeply for our spiritual and daily lives. From “leftover friends” to “vacation friends,” they explore the categories of connection that shape our relationships and laugh through their own experiences of defining (and sometimes redefining) what true friendship looks like.
They also wrestle with the challenges of building and maintaining close friendships in adulthood and ask whether you can form new, lifelong friendships outside of your college years. The conversation ultimately highlights why friendship is a spiritual gift that brings accountability, joy, and meaning into our lives.
Takeaways
Friendship involves both loving and liking another person.
Different seasons of life bring different types of friendships — from childhood peers to college roommates to neighbors and church friends.
“Vacation friends” and “backdoor friends” illustrate deeper levels of trust, vulnerability, and comfort.
Adult friendship often requires intentionality and risk — inviting others into your unpolished, everyday moments.
Friendship enriches spiritual habits through accountability, encouragement, joy, correction, and meaning.
While many lifelong friends are made between ages 18–28, meaningful friendships can be formed later in life through shared vulnerability and unplanned time together.
Resources
Messy Beautiful Friendship by Christine Hoover https://www.amazon.com/Messy-Beautiful-Friendship-Finding-Through/dp/1433558188
Building Spiritual Habits in the Home by Clayton Greene & Chris Pappalardo https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D5VBPZZR
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