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The Gen Mess with Tess
Tess Brigham
35 episodes
6 days ago

Are generational divides in the workplace and in life driving you crazy?

The Gen Mess with Tess is here to help! Hosted by Tess Brigham—certified coach, licensed therapist, TEDx speaker, author, and mom to a Gen Zer—this podcast tackles the challenges and complexities of navigating life and work across multiple generations. From the unique struggles of Gen Z to the evolving perspectives of Millennials, Gen X, and Baby Boomers, Tess brings her expertise to the table, offering practical advice, expert insights, and real conversations to bridge the generational gap. Whether you're trying to communicate better with colleagues, understand your kids, or just get a clearer perspective on the "mess" of it all, The Gen Mess with Tess is your go-to resource for understanding how different generations think, work, and live.


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Are generational divides in the workplace and in life driving you crazy?

The Gen Mess with Tess is here to help! Hosted by Tess Brigham—certified coach, licensed therapist, TEDx speaker, author, and mom to a Gen Zer—this podcast tackles the challenges and complexities of navigating life and work across multiple generations. From the unique struggles of Gen Z to the evolving perspectives of Millennials, Gen X, and Baby Boomers, Tess brings her expertise to the table, offering practical advice, expert insights, and real conversations to bridge the generational gap. Whether you're trying to communicate better with colleagues, understand your kids, or just get a clearer perspective on the "mess" of it all, The Gen Mess with Tess is your go-to resource for understanding how different generations think, work, and live.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Relationships
Business,
Society & Culture,
Careers,
Management
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Ep 32: Love is Blind and So Are We: Navigating Vulnerability in Modern Dating
The Gen Mess with Tess
21 minutes 52 seconds
2 weeks ago
Ep 32: Love is Blind and So Are We: Navigating Vulnerability in Modern Dating

What if your quest for love is actually a quest for safety?


In this eye-opening solo episode of "Gen Mess with Tess," host Tess Brigham dives deep into the messy reality behind the hit TV show Love is Blind—and reveals the uncomfortable truth: the show isn’t just a high-drama dating experiment, it's a mirror reflecting how we all perform, protect, and hide in our own relationships.

Tess explores why so many of us crave genuine connection but run from vulnerability, and how the performative world of swiping, texting, and social media shapes our fears of rejection and being truly seen. She breaks down unforgettable examples from Love is Blind—from avoiding tough conversations to sabotaging intimacy—and connects these moments to universal patterns we all share.


Key highlights include:

  • Why our brains treat emotional risks like physical danger, and how that keeps us from authentic love.
  • The real reason modern dating feels so numb and disconnected (hint: it’s not just the dating apps).
  • Insightful stories from Love is Blind Season 9, like Allie’s struggle with Anton’s drinking and Madison & Joe’s emotional dance, showcasing how vulnerability—and our defenses against it—play out in real time.
  • Practical advice on “micro-vulnerability” and how you can slowly build emotional self-trust in your own life.
  • A fresh perspective on why courage in love doesn’t look glamorous, but is absolutely essential.


If you’ve ever caught yourself performing instead of connecting, or wondered why intimacy can feel so terrifying, Tess’s honest reflections and actionable tips will help you see your own patterns, and maybe, just maybe, get braver.


Timestamped Overview:

  • [00:00:00] Welcome & introduction: Unpacking the theme “Love is Blind... and so are we”
  • [00:01:02] The age of performative connection and the craving for safety
  • [00:02:46] How Love is Blind reflects our relationship reality & defenses
  • [00:04:11] Vulnerability versus connection: Fear of exposure in modern love
  • [00:05:02] Case studies: Avoidance, self-protection, and emotional risk in past seasons
  • [00:06:31] Emotional risks, self-protection, and conversation avoidance (Allie & Anton)
  • [00:07:06] What real courage in relationships looks like (via Brene Brown)
  • [00:07:42] The speed of modern dating vs. our emotional capacity
  • [00:08:09] Emotional regulation, micro-vulnerability, and building real trust
  • [00:09:00] Madison & Joe: A case of protecting instead of connecting
  • [00:10:20] Attachment styles, generational patterns, and the impact on love
  • [00:12:17] Pandemic aftermath: Starved for connection, hypersensitive to intimacy
  • [00:13:16] Dating apps as numbing tools—why modern dating feels so hard
  • [00:14:09] The paradox: Control vs. experiencing real love
  • [00:14:50] Why Love is Blind resonates with so many: performative selves vs. longing for connection
  • [00:16:24] How to practice vulnerability: Micro-steps for building emotional trust
  • [00:18:23] What love really asks of us—clarity, bravery, and staying open
  • [00:19:20] The real experiment: Where do you protect instead of connect?
  • [00:20:26] Closing thoughts and encouragement to stay curious


Ready to turn the spotlight back on yourself? Hit play and start making sense of your own emotional mess!


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The Gen Mess with Tess

Are generational divides in the workplace and in life driving you crazy?

The Gen Mess with Tess is here to help! Hosted by Tess Brigham—certified coach, licensed therapist, TEDx speaker, author, and mom to a Gen Zer—this podcast tackles the challenges and complexities of navigating life and work across multiple generations. From the unique struggles of Gen Z to the evolving perspectives of Millennials, Gen X, and Baby Boomers, Tess brings her expertise to the table, offering practical advice, expert insights, and real conversations to bridge the generational gap. Whether you're trying to communicate better with colleagues, understand your kids, or just get a clearer perspective on the "mess" of it all, The Gen Mess with Tess is your go-to resource for understanding how different generations think, work, and live.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.