In this heartfelt episode, we reflect on our recent trip to Nigeria, sharing the vibrant beauty of the culture, the joy of family gatherings, and the complexities of navigating expectations as first-generation individuals. From setting boundaries and addressing cultural traditions to handling family dynamics and blunt commentary, we open up about the emotional weight and growth that comes with reconnecting with home. We also dive into the rise of tourism in Nigeria, discuss the challenges of service delivery, and explore how constructive criticism can drive positive change. Tune in for personal stories, cultural commentary, and empowering lessons on independence, communication, and self-advocacy. Brought to you exclusively by the REVOLT Podcast Network #PoweredByCreators Topics covered Detty December Nigerian tourism Family dynamics Setting boundaries Cultural expectations Homecoming experiences Marriage and family legacy Personal growth Body image and self-advocacy Communication challenges Detty December: Saweetie, Tems Ayra Starr, Chloe, Burna Boy --------- The First Gems is a brand that aims to create a safe space for first-generation millennials to unite, discover, heal, and share their experiences. Join us as we explore first-gen stories through culture, community, and the come-up. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices