Speaking and receiving your language is something that you should consider before you enter a relationship. Keeping in mind that you should be familiar with how you want to be loved and how to love your partner. Honestly, we are all blinded by the idea of love that we forget that loving isn't just through words or actions, it will solely depend on the language that you want to receive and how your partner wants to be loved. Build a healthy relationship wherein you understand each other's wants and needs.