Do you ever say yes to plans in the moment, only to feel dread creeping in later?
Oh my gosh, I used to do this ALL the time - getting swept up in someone's excitement, committing on the spot, then beating myself up when I didn't want to follow through.
In this episode, I'm sharing the game-changing strategy that completely transformed how I make plans (and honestly, it's created so much more ease in my life).
Here's what we're diving into:
The real talk: You are fully within your right to follow your feelings and change your mind. But there's a way to honor both your truth AND your relationships without all the guilt and shame.
If you've ever felt like the "flaky friend" or struggled with people-pleasing, this one's for you. I'm giving you full permission to take your time with decisions - because when you honor how you're designed, everything gets easier.
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