This episode breaks down the differences between chemistry, lust, attraction, connection, and alignment so you can date with clarity instead of confusion.Diva Mia explains the five layers of attraction (physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, lifestyle), why connection grows over time, and why alignment of values, timing, and consistency matters for lasting relationships.Practical takeaways include holding off on sex to avoid masking red flags (a suggested three‑month window if you want a real relationship), looking for safety, respect, and reciprocity, and prioritizing long‑term compatibility over instant sparks.