This is a topic we haven't covered but will affect most of us. It has always felt like I have carried around a fear of being an artist becuase I know I want to have a family one day. "How will I do that?", "Will I be able to do that?", "What will I need to sacrifice?". Here Helen and Abbi from RashDash reveal how they are making it work with an honest account of how becoming Mothers has influenced their work. There is lot online about RashDash and their work, but in this chapter we see a different side to them. We follow them from students trying to choose a name, to picking their values, to making their shows to starting families. N.B. We are sweetly interrupted by a small person which we have decided to keep in, to maintain the flow of conversation but also to emphasise that this is real, unfiltered and a true picture of what it is like to work in the arts.