In this episode, I sit down with Thomas Holman, winner of the 2023 British Gymnastics Double Mini Trampoline Elite Coach of the Year. A childhood friend and reflect on our shared history, from early days at a Cornwall playgroup to diverging paths in school and life. We delve into the challenges of growing up with different familial backgrounds, particularly noting the Scottish and Cornish influences. Thomas shares a deeply personal journey of coming to terms with his sexuality, the societal pressures of growing up gay in a small town, and the eventual relief and struggles that followed coming out. His story transitions into a discussion on his involvement in sports, particularly trampolining, and how passion for the sport, despite initial reluctance, provided a sense of purpose and fulfilment amidst the personal turmoil.   This episode provides a heartfelt narrative about overcoming adversity, the importance of supportive communities, and finding one's path despite societal and self-imposed hurdles.   To have a listen to my other episodes, or want to see what I’m up to outside of the episodes, please click the link and pick your preferred platform: https://linktr.ee/daryltalks   To support the channel to continue upgrading the content: http://buymeacoffee.com/daryltalks   If you’d like to feedback or be a guest on an episode: talksdaryl@gmail.com