In our second episode we tackle a problem Gail has noticed popping up for her. If our friends approach us when they've been wronged by someone how can we give council and not come off as a victim blamer by leaving space for their feelings. Often times our feelings can serve as sticky molasses, making it difficult to get to the real issues. The aim we are trying to achieve is for our friends to be encouraged, to be strong enough to face being victim of bad behavior and not be take out by it.