
In this powerful episode of The Dad Project Podcast, host Naroop Jhooti welcomes Harj Gahley, a devoted father who shares his courageous battle with gambling addiction, the heavy financial and emotional toll it took, and how he found redemption and purpose through fatherhood.Harj opens up about losing over £200,000 to gambling, the shame and secrecy that followed, and the pivotal moment he decided to seek help. His journey from addiction to accountability is one of resilience, growth, and deep emotional healing.Through therapy, emotional vulnerability, and the support of a brotherhood of fathers, Harj has transformed his life and now shows up fully for his children with authenticity and love. His story is a raw and inspiring reminder that no matter how far you've fallen, it's never too late to rise again.🎧 Honest, impactful, and full of wisdom, this episode is a beacon of hope for any dad struggling with addiction or emotional isolation.00:00:00 Introduction: Meet Harj00:02:16 Struggles After Separation00:05:44 Gambling Addiction and Financial Loss00:09:12 Facing the Fear of Losing His Kids00:11:49 How The Dad Project Changed His Life00:15:07 Therapy and Self-Discovery00:18:26 Masculinity, Vulnerability, and Growth00:23:03 How Harj Shows Up for His Kids Now00:26:41 Words of Wisdom for Other Fathers00:30:14 Finding Strength Through Brotherhood00:35:28 Coping with Change and Rediscovery00:42:16 Building Emotional Intelligence00:47:51 Breaking Generational Patterns00:55:03 Living with Intention and Purpose01:02:34 Co-Parenting Challenges and Lessons01:10:22 Embracing Vulnerability in Daily Life01:17:58 Personal Growth and Long-Term Vision01:25:44 Final Reflections and Hopes for Fathers🔔 If you found value in this conversation, like, share, and subscribe to support The Dad Project and help more fathers find strength in their journey.📲 Follow Harj Gahleywww.instagram.com/harjgahley/www.linkedin.com/in/harjgahley/📲 Follow The Dad Project:www.instagram.com/thedadprojecthqwww.facebook.com/thedadprojecthqwww.tiktok.com/@thedadprojecthqYouTube: @thedadprojecthqwww.x.com/thedadprojecthqwww.linkedin.com/company/the-dad-project#Fatherhood #GamblingAddiction #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #TheDadProject #AddictionRecovery #SelfGrowth #DadLife #ParentingSupport #EmotionalWellbeing