“You need to engage a funeral director.”
Even when you’ve tried to prepare, those words signal a shift. In this standalone episode of The D Word, I talk through the moment of making the call - why it can feel disloyal, why it isn’t, and how opening a conversation early can give Future You more space and support. I share the practical steps (what to say, what information helps, and what to do if you change your mind), plus the core questions to ask and the red flags that mean you should pause and reassess.

We move into ceremony - why it matters, what it does for the living as well as the dead, and how to shape something that feels true to your person. Whether your family leans on religious tradition or you prefer a personalised, celebrant-led service, you have choices. I offer simple ways to prevent decision fatigue and keep your energy for the parts that matter most.

If you’re facing a funeral now, or simply listening to feel more prepared, this episode is a gentle guide to agency, clarity, and care.

If you need support: Speak to your GP or local grief support service. In Australia, Griefline: 1300 845 745.