Stop Repeating Old Patterns: Attachment Styles in Love & Divorce Recovery

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The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club

Erica Bennett

120 episodes

5 days ago

Welcome to The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, a podcast dedicated to helping women navigate the emotional journey of divorce and all that comes with it. Whether you're struggling with the decision to leave, dealing with the aftermath of a difficult divorce, or trying to figure out how to co-parent with your ex, this podcast has got you covered. The Crazy Ex-Wives Club offers advice, tips, and strategies to help women move through each stage of the process.

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Stop Repeating Old Patterns: Attachment Styles in Love & Divorce Recovery

The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club

39 minutes 5 seconds

1 month ago

Stop Repeating Old Patterns: Attachment Styles in Love & Divorce Recovery

Do your relationships keep triggering old wounds? In this episode of The Crazy Ex-Wife’s Club, therapist Melissa Lapides breaks down how anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up after divorce—and how to finally heal them.

Whether you’re newly divorced, co-parenting, or opening your heart to love again, this conversation will help you stop repeating painful patterns and reclaim your emotional power.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways

What attachment wounds are and how they form in childhood
How anxious and avoidant attachment styles show up in love and divorce
Why sitting with emotions leads to deeper healing
Practical tools to separate real needs from emotional triggers
How to stop letting old wounds bleed into new relationships

⏱️ Episode Timestamps

00:00 Intro

02:22 Understanding attachment wounds

05:28 Navigating separation & divorce

06:21 Healing through self-awareness in divorce

08:10 The role of mirroring in relationships

09:01 Communicating needs in relationships

21:27 Embracing acceptance in relationships

22:10 The power of communication & compromise

25:01 Nonviolent communication techniques

29:13 Building emotional resilience

30:48 Self-discovery & personal growth after divorce

33:34 Navigating new relationships post-divorce

🌟 Resources & Links

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Connect with Melissa Lapides (Licensed Psychotherapist & Founder of Securely Attached)

Website: getsecurelyattached.com
Instagram: @getsecurelyattached

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Instagram: @thecrazyexwivesclub
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Website: thecrazyexwivesclub.com

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