Stop wasting time dating the wrong people..

In this episode of The Couples Edition, we’re breaking down how intentional dating led us to getting engaged after just 3 months—and why it worked. From building your non-negotiables list to spotting red flags early, we’re giving you the exact mindset shift to stop settling and start dating with purpose.

⏱ TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 – Intro to intentional dating

01:36 – The first time we met - interviewing your date

03:53 – Making a list of your ideal partner

05:34 – Determine what you want YOUR life to look like first

06:44 – Elie showing intentionality immediately

07:48 – Dealbreakers on your list

08:58 – Elie’s framework for making a list

12:02 – Examples of boxes Alli checked on Elie’s list

14:51 – Your partner's money..

18:30 – How not to waste time on people / red flags

29:25 – Thoughts on ghosting people

31:46 – Deep Dive Tea Time: What did no one warn you about marriage?

38:26 – Stop settling

🎧 Whether you're single, dating, or rethinking your standards—this one’s for you.

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