In today’s episode, we dive into a tough—but crucial—topic: how to talk to our kids about the difficult things happening in the world. From rising antisemitism to unsettling headlines, our children are absorbing more than we realize—and they’re looking to us for guidance, safety, and perspective.
Join me as we explore:
💬 Why silence doesn’t protect our kids—but thoughtful conversation can
🧒 Age-appropriate ways to open up the conversation
👂 Practical scripts for when you don’t know what to say
🙏 How to help your child feel safe, empowered, and proud to be Jewish
You’ll walk away with:
Confidence to approach these conversations with clarity and calm
Tools to strengthen your child emotionally and spiritually
And a renewed understanding of the power of being a guiding voice in your child’s life
Whether your child is asking tough questions—or you’re wondering when and how to start the conversation—this episode is for you.
🎧 Listen now and let’s walk this journey together.
As parents, we want our kids to know they are deeply loved, valued, and supported. But how do we show them—through our actions, words, and daily choices—that they are our priority? In this episode, we dive into what it means to truly "go to bat" for our kids, whether it's advocating for them at school, standing up for their needs, or simply being present in their everyday lives.
No matter what stage of parenting you're in, this episode will encourage you to take small, meaningful steps to make sure your kids know they matter—always.
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Dr Ilyssa Bass is passionate about helping parents connect to their most difficult children.
After training as a clinical psychologist at the University of California, Santa Barbara and studying developmental psychology at Stanford University she thought she was super-prepared to be a mommy. But really, her kids taught her things academia never could have.
In this episode packed full of wisdom and insights she talks us through 3 popular ideas about parenting complex kids and tells us which one is a lie.
To join her summit: drilyssabass.com/summit
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After a fabulous first episode, Chavie Bruk is back with some more wisdom about how to help our kids navigate difficult social situations and their mental health.
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In this insightful episode, we explore the delicate art of instilling values in our children while maintaining a positive and encouraging environment. Parenting is full of teachable moments, but how do we guide our kids toward making good choices without constantly correcting or scolding them when they misstep? We share practical strategies and inspiring insights to help parents model and teach values effectively, fostering a deeper connection and mutual respect within the family.
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Parenting with empathy is more than just understanding—it’s about connecting with your child on a deeper level, even during challenging moments. In this episode, we explore how to practice empathy in the real world and share practical exercises to help you build stronger, more compassionate relationships with your kids.
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Empathy isn’t just a skill—it’s a gift we can give to our children to help them thrive emotionally and build strong connections with others. Tune in and discover how to bring more empathy into your parenting journey!
Check out my book, Living Beautifully! https://amzn.to/49zrC6z Listening is one of the most powerful tools in parenting—but it’s often easier said than done. In this episode of The Confident Parent Podcast, we break down the three essential elements of effective listening and explore how mastering this skill can transform your connection with your kids.
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Listening is a skill that builds connection and confidence—for both you and your child. Tune in to learn how to make this powerful tool a part of your parenting approach!
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Should parents use incentives to motivate their kids? And if so, what kind of incentives work best, and when are they appropriate? In this episode, we dive into the often-debated topic of incentives in parenting. We explore the balance between fostering intrinsic motivation and using external rewards to encourage good behavior or achieve goals.
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Using incentives is not just about getting kids to comply—it’s about helping them grow into motivated, self-driven individuals. Tune in to this episode for practical insights and strategies to make incentives a meaningful part of your parenting toolkit!
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Parenting a child with ADHD can be both challenging and rewarding. In this episode, we tackle the essential tools and strategies for supporting kids with ADHD while becoming their strongest advocate. From navigating school systems to fostering self-confidence, we dive deep into what it means to empower our children to thrive. Take Action: Share your questions or ADHD parenting tips with us on Instagram or at gilaross@gmail.com Subscribe to the podcast and leave a review—it helps us reach more families like yours! Know a parent who could use this advice? Forward this episode their way. Together, we can help our kids shine bright and embrace their unique brilliance! 🌟
Get my almost sold-out book, Living Beautifully! https://amzn.to/49zrC6z Chavie Bruk adopted 5 kids and talks to us about her story of building a diverse family and shares so much of her wisdom with us!
We discuss using our intention in raising our kids, how to share from a healthy place, and how to advocate for our kids. It's a must listen to!!
Chavie describes herself as a juggler: leading a Jewish community with her sushi loving husband, caring for her five rambunctious kids (who are adopted), and living in the Wild West of Montana, where it’s ALWAYS winter (or so it feels). It’s an art to be juggler, to live our fullest potential and still have very real lives. Not the perfect, glossy, manicured ones we so often encounter.
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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common reasons behind tantrums: the need for control. Young children are naturally driven to test boundaries and assert independence, often leading to intense outbursts when things don’t go their way. As parents, knowing how to handle these situations with calmness and clarity can make all the difference.
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In this episode, we dive into the emotional world of children and discuss what’s behind those overwhelming tantrums. Tantrums are a normal part of childhood but can often leave parents feeling confused or helpless. We explore the reasons why kids experience intense emotions, especially when they’re feeling overwhelmed or overstimulated, and how we as parents and caregivers can best respond in these moments.
Through expert insights and practical tips, we unpack the developmental reasons for tantrums and offer tools to help your child regulate their emotions, express themselves more effectively, and feel understood. By learning to navigate these challenging situations with empathy and patience, we can foster a calmer, more supportive environment that helps kids feel safe and loved.
While tantrums can be exhausting, they’re also opportunities to help your child learn essential life skills in emotional regulation and self-awareness. With the right support and consistency, kids can feel empowered and calm through even the most challenging emotions.
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Sibling rivalry is something every parent encounters at some point. Whether it’s fights over toys, attention, or who gets to sit in the front seat, conflict between siblings can be frustrating and draining for both parents and children. In this episode, we’ll explore two more powerful tools to help you manage sibling rivalry more effectively. These strategies focus on fostering cooperation, reducing jealousy, and helping siblings build healthy, lasting relationships.
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Sibling rivalry is something every parent encounters at some point. Whether it’s fights over toys, attention, or who gets to sit in the front seat, conflict between siblings can be frustrating and draining for both parents and children. In this episode, we’ll explore two powerful tools to help you manage sibling rivalry more effectively. These strategies focus on fostering cooperation, reducing jealousy, and helping siblings build healthy, lasting relationships.
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Hear from some other parents about how they implemented this effective discipline strategy plus a review of the 3 stands we need to take as parents.
Every child will have moments of misbehavior, but with the right approach, we can guide them in ways that foster growth and learning. By responding calmly, remaining consistent with our rules, and using effective discipline strategies, we teach our children valuable life skills—while also maintaining harmony in the home.
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In this episode, we explore how to handle our children's misbehavior in ways that are calm, consistent, and effective. Missteps and minor misbehaviors are a natural part of growing up, but how we respond as parents can shape a child's ability to learn from their mistakes. We’ll discuss a practical strategy to guide children toward better behavior while maintaining a peaceful and structured approach.
Every child will have moments of misbehavior, but with the right approach, we can guide them in ways that foster growth and learning. By responding calmly, remaining consistent with our rules, and using effective discipline strategies, we teach our children valuable life skills—while also maintaining harmony in the home.
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If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe and share it with other parents who might benefit from these tips on dealing with misbehavior in a calm and consistent way!
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The big one!! How do we set limits with our children in a positive way? How do we enforce those limits? Listen to this episode to find out!
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In the day to day of raising children there are so many things that we need them to do - brush their teeth, be nice to other people, the list is long!! And it can be so confrontational and draining to try and get them to listen to us. Here's a fantastic tool that will help us communicate with our children in a way that elicits co-operation and builds them up.
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How do we raise confident kids? In this episode we hear from some parents about a powerful and easy tool you can use to help your kids feel seen and an easy way to help your kids build their confidence in themselves.
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