
Summary
In this episode of the Confidad podcast, Dan Tinquist explores the significance of silence in parenting. He emphasizes how silence can communicate unintentional messages to children and the importance of addressing sensitive topics openly. Dan also discusses the strategic use of silence to foster deeper communication and trust between parents and children, encouraging parents to create a safe space for dialogue.
Takeaways
I'm the only one who can fulfill the father role I have, so I choose to do it well.
Our silence can communicate things we're not intending to say.
If we're silent on certain topics, it means we're not a safe place.
We need to be the ones that begin these conversations with our kids.
Silence can be used strategically to listen and understand our kids better.
Utilizing silence can help draw out our kids' thoughts and feelings.
Open-ended questions combined with silence show that we care.
Silence can communicate trust, love, and patience without words.
Being present in silence can create a non-anxious environment.
Starting with just 35 seconds of silence can open up communication with our kids.
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