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The Complete Woman
Tori Poulter
45 episodes
2 days ago
The Complete Woman Podcast is a heartfelt space dedicated to exploring every aspect of a woman’s wellbeing, from physical health to emotional and mental wellness. Whether you're navigating a particular stage in life or simply seeking a deep sense of connection, this podcast is for you. Join host Tori Poulter to celebrate the beauty of being a woman; we are all complex, perfectly imperfect, often confident, and always spectacular. Tune in every Wednesday to learn from shared stories and experiences with a focus on support and finding realistic solutions to help you thrive through the hormonal and emotional changes we all experience in life, particularly through perimenopause and menopause. Each of us is worthy of joy -- let's thrive together. 
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Mental Health
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The Complete Woman Podcast is a heartfelt space dedicated to exploring every aspect of a woman’s wellbeing, from physical health to emotional and mental wellness. Whether you're navigating a particular stage in life or simply seeking a deep sense of connection, this podcast is for you. Join host Tori Poulter to celebrate the beauty of being a woman; we are all complex, perfectly imperfect, often confident, and always spectacular. Tune in every Wednesday to learn from shared stories and experiences with a focus on support and finding realistic solutions to help you thrive through the hormonal and emotional changes we all experience in life, particularly through perimenopause and menopause. Each of us is worthy of joy -- let's thrive together. 
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Alternative Health
Health & Fitness,
Nutrition,
Mental Health
Episodes (20/45)
The Complete Woman
The Beauty of Becoming | Makeup, Mindset, and Midlife Magic with Erica Taylor
Midlife beauty isn’t about reinvention—it’s about refinement. In this episode, Erica Taylor shares her most copied beauty tips, from where to place your blush to how to avoid makeup mistakes that “drop” the face. These aren’t gimmicks—they’re micro-adjustments that lift, open, and soften your natural beauty. Tune in for the techniques every woman over 35 should know—and the confidence that comes when you stop hiding and start highlighting.

Chapters

00:00 The Woman Behind the Brush
02:45 The Power of Subtle Changes
06:10 Common Mistakes That Age the Face
09:25 The Emotional Side of Makeup
13:30 Viral Beauty Tips and Why They Work
18:45 Subtlety Over Shock: The Art of Refinement

Erica Taylor | Instagram: @ericataylor2347
FB: https://www.facebook.com/ericataylorbeauty


Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr
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2 days ago
53 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Courage to Be Embraced | Healing After Hair Loss with Allison Sarracino
When Allison Sarracino began losing her hair after childbirth, she thought she was losing her identity too. What unfolded instead was a spiritual and emotional awakening. Her alopecia diagnosis became a lesson in faith, surrender, and self-compassion. In this deeply honest conversation, Tori and Allison unpack what it means to redefine beauty from the inside out and how to find peace with a body that’s always changing.

Chapters 
 02:51 Allison's Journey: Overcoming Adversity 
06:05 The Impact of Alopecia on Identity 
08:56 The Emotional Toll of Hair Loss 
11:59 Acceptance and Surrender 
14:59 Finding Strength in Vulnerability 
17:56 Redefining Beauty and Confidence 
20:59 The Role of Motherhood in Personal Growth 
23:50 Helping Others Through Shared Experiences 
27:06 The Importance of Community Support 
30:02 Compassion Through Struggles 
33:06 The Cycle of Life and Growth 
36:00 Making It About Others 
38:57 The Gift of Motherhood 
41:55 Encouraging Women to Embrace Their Journey 
44:54 The Power of Sharing Stories 
 
Allison Sarracino | Instagram: @allisonsarr 
Website: https://komigo.me/allison/ 
  
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
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1 week ago
44 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Community Cure | How Connection Heals What Suppression Hides with Chris Yadon
Everyone says you have to feel it to heal it. But we were never meant to heal in isolation. 
 In this episode of The Complete Woman, Chris Yadon joins Tori to explore how emotional numbing quietly shapes women’s health, and how authentic connection helps restore balance physically, mentally, and hormonally. Feeling like “you” again means fully feeling, instead of shoving it all down, scrolling on social media until it boils over and a minor inconvenience makes you cry.  
 
With warmth and clarity, Tori and Chris discuss the rising prevelence of the numbing cycle, the loneliness epidemic, and the simple but radical act of letting yourself be seen. 
 
It’s not just a conversation, it’s a call back to community. 
 
Chapters 
00:00  Chris’s Story 
08:41 The Spectrum of Emotional Numbing 
14:19  Reawakening Emotion and Empathy 
18:39  The Benefits of Emotional Awareness 
22:22 The Importance of Vulnerability 
28:43  The Loneliness Epidemic and the Power of Connection 
36:11  Closing Reflections; Feeling as Freedom 
 
Chris Yadon| Website: https://www.chrisyadon.com/lander?oref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2F 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-yadon-mpa-3533937 
 
 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
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2 weeks ago
56 minutes

The Complete Woman
Stress Isn’t The Enemy, It’s Your Sign to Start | Gentle Changes with Jacki Volden Russell
In this episode of The Complete Woman, holistic lifestyle coach Jacki Volden Russell invites us to see stress not as an enemy, but as a message from the body asking for care. Together with Tori, she explores how gentle shifts—like eating within 30 minutes of waking, morning sunlight, and magnesium support—can rewire our nervous system for calm. This is your reminder that healing doesn’t have to be hard. It starts with listening. 
 
Cottage Cheese Waffles  
 
1 cup cottage cheese 
1/2 cup egg whites or 4 eggs  
2 tbsp milk  
1 tbsp melted butter  
1 cup flour  
1 1/2 tsp baking soda  
 
Blend wet ingredients until smooth.  
 
In a separate bowl mix the flour and baking soda.  
 
Fold the two mixtures together (it’s a fairly thick consistency). Fry on a skillet until thoroughly!  
 
This makes 3 full sized waffles. 
 
Full recipe: 
955 calories  
111g carbs  
7g fats 
66g protein  
 
1 waffle:  
318 calories 
37g carbs  
2.5g fat  
22g protein 
 
Chapters 
02:48 Understanding Stress as a Signal 
05:27 The Importance of Somatic Healing 
08:09 Cortisol and Circadian Rhythms 
11:11 Practical Tips for Managing Stress 
14:13 Nutrition's Role in Stress Management 
17:17 Creating Healthy Morning Routines 
23:04 The Importance of Eating Regularly 
24:04 Caffeine and Its Effects on Hormones 
25:55 Transformative Changes Through Simple Habits 
29:02 The Role of Magnesium in Health 
33:06 Building a Morning Routine for Success 
38:07 Understanding Emotional Responses and Tolerance 
42:26 The Power of Small Changes 
45:37 Creating an Evening Routine for Better Sleep 
50:30 Self-Compassion and Personal Growth 
 
Jacki Volden-Russell | IG: @jackivoldenrussellcoach 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindbodyconnectioncollective 
 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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3 weeks ago
44 minutes

The Complete Woman
Minutes That Matter | Reclaiming Your Power with The Psychology of Time
We all tell ourselves “we don’t have enough time” for the workout, or the next big idea.  
But what if you could pull time out of thin air? Who would you be and, WHERE would you be in life? In this episode, Tori gives you her top 3 tips for managing your time and your energy with intention. It won’t tell you how to do more, but it will teach you to do what matters.  
 
Chapters 
00:00 Mastering Time and Priorities 
11:01 Three Rules for Intentional Living 
22:22 Evaluating the Psychology of Time 

Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr
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1 month ago
25 minutes

The Complete Woman
Movement is Mood | How to Fall in Love with Working Out with Luisa Curia
What keeps women from moving their bodies isn’t always time—it’s often embarrassment. In this episode, Luisa Curia, founder of Stronger with Luisa, unpacks how to move beyond guilt, perfectionism, and the “skinny” narrative to embrace strength as your true superpower. Her story of turning fitness into a lifeline—and then a global business—is proof that movement isn’t just about aesthetics. It’s about survival, resilience, and joy.  
 
Chapters   
00:00 The Psychology of Women's Fitness Challenges 
02:57 Chasing Strength Over Aesthetics 
05:47 Honoring the Self: The Importance of Self-Care 
08:48 Transformative Power of Fitness: A Personal Journey 
11:56 Overcoming Embarrassment in Fitness 
14:46 Building a Fitness Community Online 
17:41 The Importance of Gratitude and Mindset 
20:40 Finding Balance: Comfort vs. Challenge in Workouts 
23:51 Strong vs. Skinny: Redefining Fitness Goals 
26:34 The Scale: A Tool or a Trap? 
27:09 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Punishment 
28:50 Excuses and Time Management in Fitness 
31:44 Finding Time for Exercise in Busy Lives 
32:48 The Importance of Weight Training 
35:56 Simple and Effective Home Workouts 
36:37 Prioritizing Fitness Over Aesthetics 
38:46 Addressing Embarrassment in Fitness 
42:32 Transformative Effects of Consistent Exercise 
43:46 Final Thoughts on Overcoming Barriers to Fitness 
 
Luisa Curia | IG: @strongerwithluisa 
Free October Classes:  https://www.strongerwithluisa.com/ 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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1 month ago
47 minutes

The Complete Woman
From People-Pleasing to Inner Peace | Healing Perfectionism with Rachel Thornton
Rachel Thornton believes perfectionism isn’t about excellence—it’s about confusing your identity with your output. In this episode, she and Tori explore how perfectionism manifests in motherhood, careers, relationships, and especially during midlife transitions. You’ll learn why perfectionism is so common for women, and how to reclaim your sense of self beyond the to-do list. 


Chapters  
00:00 Understanding the Role of a Therapist 
07:22 The Perils of Perfectionism 
09:53 Perfectionism in Women: A Deeper Look 
15:53 The Impact of Early Messaging on Body Image 
22:08 Parenting and Perfectionism: Breaking the Cycle 
24:25 Navigating Teenage Perfectionism 
27:57 Striving for Excellence vs. Perfectionism 
30:10 Reframing Identity and Actions 
34:40 Midlife Reflections and Identity Shifts 
48:32 Finding Peace Beyond Perfectionism 
 
Rachel Thornton | IG: @rachelthorntonlcsw 
Website: https://www.reframetherapyutah.com/about 
  
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth   
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr   
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1 month ago
51 minutes

The Complete Woman
Emotional Eating and Hormone Havoc | The Road to Binge Free Body Freedom with Amber Romaniuk
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop of cravings, shame, and “starting over on Monday,” this episode is for you. Amber Romaniuk joins The Complete Woman to explain the powerful role hormones play in emotional eating. Together we explore why midlife women are most affected—and what it takes to create lasting food freedom without restriction or burnout. 
 
Chapters:  
04:41 The Journey of Emotional Eating 
12:44 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Love 
17:38 The Cycle of Emotional Eating 
24:08 Physical vs. Emotional Hunger 
28:01 Common Triggers for Emotional Eating 
30:01 Emotional Triggers and Eating Habits 
31:59 The Impact of Hormones on Mood and Eating 
39:22 The Need for Hormonal Education 
42:55 Navigating Healthcare and Hormonal Health 
46:29 Building Awareness and Healthy Habits 
51:47 Community Support and Social Pressures 
54:19 Transformative Success Stories 
 
Amber Romaniuk | IG: @amberromaniuk 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/amber.romaniuk 
Website: https://amberapproved.ca/ 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth  
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr  
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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1 month ago
56 minutes

The Complete Woman
Beyond Bellyfat | Understanding the Estrogen-Insulin Connection with Jesse Allen
Why does weight gain sneak up on women during perimenopause—even when your habits haven’t changed? 

In this episode of The Complete Woman, wellness expert Jesse Allen explains the powerful link between estrogen and insulin, and how these hormones shape metabolism, cravings, and energy. You’ll learn why your old routines may not be working anymore and the science-backed steps that do work for women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. This conversation is both hopeful and practical, offering strength training, nutrition, and lifestyle strategies that support your body through hormonal transitions. 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
 
Chapters 
00:00 Understanding Unexplained Weight Gain in Women 
01:56 The Role of Insulin and Estrogen 
09:07 Metabolic Processes and Weight Storage 
19:05 Hormonal Changes and Insulin Resistance 
25:27 Strategies for Managing Weight and Health 
33:48 Eating Habits: Grazing vs. Intermittent Fasting 
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1 month ago
39 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Body Keeps Score But Breath Restores | From Trauma to Transformation with Ashley Maas
The stories we never speak don’t disappear—they settle into our bodies as fatigue, anxiety, and imbalance. Breathwork is the bridge between past wounds and present freedom. In this episode, Ashley Maas opens up about her journey of healing generational trauma and guiding women toward wholeness through breath and sound. If you’ve been waiting for a reset, this conversation will show you where it begins: in your body, one breath at a time. 
Chapters  
00:00 Meet Ashley Maas 
4:16 Breathwork 101 
08:35 The Breath as Medicine 
21:37 Working Through Wounds with Breath 
29:17 The Body Keeps Score 
33:26 The Beginners Guide to Healing  
40:44 Learning to Sit With Ourselves  
 
Ashley Maas | @theashleymaas 
@riseupexperiences 
https://riseupexperiences.squarespace.com/links?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAac_yVKS8-sTB33_IzKrWNyLuDpqmmAGVV4UV2mrGpV81Cqs5qZ4L5_IQpVF0Q_aem_20vZBxCyIs8MLRvFMnePHg 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth  
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr  
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
 
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2 months ago
51 minutes

The Complete Woman
From Force to Flow | Finding Your Soul Song with Deb Erickson
We’ve been taught to force our way through life. Deb Erickson teaches another way. With candor and courage, she shares how surviving trauma, embracing her neurodivergence, and letting go of perfectionism opened the door to a life of resonance and flow. This episode invites women to see midlife not as decline, but as the moment to soften, listen, and finally align with their soul’s work. If you’ve been waiting for the right time, let this be it. 
 
Chapters  
00:00 Meet Deb Erickson--New Work, Same Calling 
01:00 The Mind and the Heart as Co-Creators  
03:14  Seeing Obstacles as Teachers 
05:56  The Subtle Difference Between Religion and Spirit 
09:15 Listening for the Soul’s Song 
12:00 Living with a Steady Heart 
15:08  The Courage to Quiet the Noise of Comparison 
17:54 The Sound Engineer of the Mind 
20:47 Meeting Our Emotions with Awareness 
23:57 Flow, Not Force-- Complete Without Striving 
 
 
Deb Erickson | deb@deberickson.com 
                        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/icaninstitute 
 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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2 months ago
50 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Conversations that Changed Our Lives | Hormone Confidence Highlights with Jordyn Bates
Have your personal goals been gathering dust? 

This episode is here to help you stop coasting, and come back to the tools that support the true you. Join us as we reflect on the most powerful moments of the season from Dr. Sandra Dalton, Jodi Wellman, Marissa Lore, and other wonderful guests who’ve faced the midlife crossroads and chosen possibility. 

If you’ve slowed your progress on past episodes, this is your invitation to recommit to your own revival. 
 
Chapters 
00:00 The First Chapter of Completeness  
01:48 Embracing Wisdom to Unlearn Old Wounds  
06:54 Nourishment and Intuitive Eating  
09:15 Quieting the Inner Critic  
10:46 Writing Your Own Wellness Story  
12:16 The Myth of Multitasking and The Power of Presence  
15:55 Creating Space for Self-Honoring Progress  
19:05 Getting Good Sleep 
24:21 The Incredible Impact of Gratitude  
28:25 We Heal from Sisterhood, Not Shame  
35:58 Undoing the Taboo-ing of Menopause  
41:02 Contemplating ‘The Complete Woman’ 

Jordyn Bates | IG: @hellofellowtravllers

Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr
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2 months ago
50 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Courage of Your Calling | Parenting Adults and Reclaiming Your Purpose with Kara Lewis Newton
Life's next chapter is asking for more than survival. It's asking for patience. It's asking you to be kind to yourself.

In this conversation, Kara Lewis Newton opens up about raising adult children, rediscovering her purpose, and redefining success on her own terms. Together, we explore how courage is less about grand gestures and more about choosing honesty, alignment, and community. This episode is your reminder that your calling isn’t behind you—it’s unfolding right now.

Chapters 
02:03 Practicing Patience Through Parenting Changes 
10:35 Letting Go Without Losing the Love
20:07 Relearning How to Relate 
28:11 Finding Home Within
33:05 Feeling Complete 

Kara Lewis Newton | IG: @karalewisnewton
Website: https://karalewisnewton.com/

Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com
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2 months ago
38 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Gratitude Glow Up | Sexy Boundaries and Self Worth with Victoria Dumé
Your subconscious beliefs will make or break your long term success (and your sense of self worth.)  

Luckily, you have more control than you might think. This week, Victoria Dumé joins Tori Poulter on The Complete Woman to explore the connection between gratitude, self esteem, and living the life of your dreams. If you’re ready to shake off the self doubt and step into your most magnetic season, this conversation is for you.  

With experience as a wellness expert and coach, Victoria shares powerful strategies to fuel your energy, reset your nervous sytem, and protect your time like it’s your most valuable currency. You’ll learn how to set “sexy boundaries,” build a community that nourishes you, and align your daily habits with the business and life you’re building.  

This episode is your reminder that “Every ‘no’ to what drains you is a ‘yes’ to the life you’ve been dreaming of.” 

Chapters 
00:00 Intro 
03:15 The truth about hormone health for women over 30 
12:30 Sexy boundaries: what they are and why they matter 
21:50 The burnout antidote for ambitious women 
33:40 How to align your energy with your business goals 
42:15 Community without self-betrayal 
49:00 Daily rituals for magnetic mornings 
 
Victoria Dumé | IG: @your_gratitudecoach 
PowHER Retreats: https://www.bringthegratitude.com/home 
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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3 months ago
53 minutes

The Complete Woman
Living Wide, Loving Deep | Sam Ballard's 5 Glimmers for a Joyful Life
Sam Ballard doesn’t just survive her days—she savors them.

In this joyful and heartfelt episode, Sam shares her five “glimmers” that shape her wide-open, full-hearted life—from sacred routines to spontaneous adventures. Whether you’re craving structure or soul, this conversation is your permission slip to show up fully, even in the mess. A must-listen for anyone yearning to feel more alive in midlife.

Chapters 

00:00 Introduction to Living Wide and Deep
02:51 Sam's Unique Background and Upbringing
06:00 The Five Glimmers for a Joyful Life
08:53 Embracing Senses and Gratitude
12:04 The Importance of Structure
14:45 Building Connections and Relationships
17:51 Celebrating Life's Moments
20:57 Creating Meaningful Experiences
23:41 Choosing Joy and Overcoming Challenges

Sam Ballard| IG: @sammy2meb
FB: https://www.facebook.com/samanthaballard
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr
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3 months ago
38 minutes

The Complete Woman
Radiant Forever | Power In Postpartum and Perimenopause with Dr. Prudence Hall
They handed you the baby, but no one handed you the manual for your body. 

In this episode, Dr. Prudence Hall shares what happens when estrogen plummets after birth, why some women spiral into postpartum depression—and how simple interventions can restore clarity, joy, and vitality. If you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, or supporting someone who is, this episode is a masterclass in science-based self care. 

With over 40,000 women treated, her wisdom is not only clinical, but also compassionate, and fiercely woman-centered. You’ll walk away understanding why estrogen drops matter, why antidepressants aren't the only answer, and how personalized hormone support can change everything. 


Chapters  
00:00 Introduction to Dr. Prudence Hall 
03:01 The Importance of Integrative Medicine 
05:51 Understanding Hormones and Women's Health 
08:44 The Journey to Bioidentical Hormones 
11:57 The Complexity of Hormonal Imbalance 
14:47 Addressing Depression and Hormonal Health 
17:41 The Role of Pharmaceuticals in Women's Health 
20:49 Hormones and Pregnancy 
23:41 Postpartum Depression and Hormonal Fluctuations 
26:34 The Psychological Impact of Motherhood 
29:38 Questions for New Mothers 
32:44 The Impact of Age on Pregnancy and Hormones 
35:43 Optimizing Hormones for Pregnancy 
38:44 The Aftermath: Recovery and Empowerment 
41:31 The Journey to Self-Discovery 
44:30 Final Thoughts and Advice 
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3 months ago
51 minutes

The Complete Woman
Rebrand Yourself, Redesign Your Life | Gratitude and Growth with Raya Coleman
What if your second act starts in sweatpants, scrolling Pinterest—and one $99 risk changes everything? 

In this radiant, real-talk episode, influencer and beauty entrepreneur Raya Coleman (aka @RayaHope) peels back the filter on what it actually takes to reclaim your identity, build a brand from the inside out, and glow through the messiness of midlife. 

You’ll hear how Raya went from feeling unable to express herself in early life, to becoming a self-made social media mogul—navigating hormone shifts, confidence dips, and the comparison trap of social media with a blend of grit, grace, and gratitude. 

Chapters 
00:00 Meet Raya Coleman  
5:22 Stepping Into the Spotlight  
15:20 Gratitude as A Growth Strategy 
23:47 How Building a Business Strengthens Families  
24:40 What Happens When a Woman Leads  
33:45 Having Grace for Haters  
40:09 Relatability on Social Media 
45:05 Self-Care Speed Round: Beauty, Skincare and Travel Tips 
48:15 What it Means to Be Complete  
Raya Coleman| IG: @rayahope 
Website: https://www.rayahope.com/ 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
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4 months ago
51 minutes

The Complete Woman
Astonishingly Alive | How You Can Live Fully (And Unapologetically) After 40
How many Monday’s do you have left to live your life?  

It might sound morbid, but it’s not a threat—it's motivation. A realization of reality, even. Your unlived dreams are waiting for you to take a step towards them, and they’re losing their patience.  

This week, Tori sits down with Jodi Wellman, author of You Only Die Once and founder of the 4,000 Mondays movement, to explore what it truly means to live with depth in midlife—especially when the world insists on telling you there are things more important than your aspirations, or your hobbies, or even just your personal joy.  

Together, they unravel the thought loops that dull our inner light—fueling our refusal to take control of our changing bodies, our identity shifts, and our quiet ache for something more.  

Jodi teaches us to give ourselves something to look forward to. 

Tune in to extend yourself that gift.  

Chapters  
00:00 Meet Jodi Wellman, The Woman Behind the 4,000 Mondays Movement  
02:57 An Inspiration Intervention (Disguised as Math)  
05:58 How Stillness and Space Create Fulfillment  
09:03 Your Life Beyond Tasks and Titles  
11:59 From Midlife Crisis to ‘Midlife Coming to Center’ 
17:39 Forgotten Joys: How Having Hobbies Helps Your Family  
25:40 Reigniting Passion, Playfulness, and Vitality  
32:24 How Grief Became a Guiding Light for Jodi  
41:15 Astonishing Aliveness—How to Live with Meaning and Momentum  
45:10 Fear, Deadlines, and The Feminine Path to Motivation  
50:50 What We’ll Really Regret When We Go 
Jodi Wellman| IG: @fourthousandmondays  
Website: https://fourthousandmondays.com/ 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
FB: https://www.facebook.com/people/Shala-Hormone-Health/61564605156249/?_rdr 
Shop Shala: www.Shala.com 
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4 months ago
53 minutes

The Complete Woman
3 Non-Negotiables for Restful Sleep | The Science Behind Your Best Rest with Jesse Allen
How can you dream any bigger when your brain won’t even let you rest? 

In this episode of The Complete Woman, Tori Poulter sits down with wellness expert Jesse Allen to unpack the most overlooked pillar of health: quality sleep—not as a luxury, but as a necessary biological rhythm.  

Together, they dive into the deep science of sleep cycles, the emotional weight of the sleepless woman, and the practical, often-forgotten rituals that can transform your nights from restless to restorative. From morning sunlight to magnesium, bedtime routines to late-night cravings, this conversation bridges modern neuroscience with simple steps towards self-care—and calls us to remember: you are not lazy, you are likely just tired. 

You’ll learn why hot flashes, sugar cravings, and even your “snooze” button are part of a bigger story—the story of how you’re showing up for yourself every day.  

Caffeine delays melatonin. Alcohol disrupts REM. But you—you—can disrupt the whole system by letting your dreams do the heavy lifting.  
 
0:00  Welcome to The Restful Night’s Sleep of Your Dreams  
02:07 Why Sleep Is the Most Important Pillar of Wellness 
05:25 How Your Exhaustion Really Affects You  
08:26 The Simple Magic of Sleep Cycles 
14:21 The Ritual of a Restful Day 
20:19 Women, Hormones & Nighttime Disruption 
28:27 Dimming the Lights: The Art of Winding Down  
36:09 What to Eat (and Avoid) for Deep Sleep 
43:51 Gentle Helpers: Supplements That Support You 
52:53 Exhaustion is Not a Badge of Honor 

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The Complete Woman
From Autopilot to Highest Self Alignment | How to Trust Your Body Again with Marissa Lore
So you’ve done everything “right,” and you still don’t feel complete. What next?  
If you’ve ever found yourself quietly wondering—”is this really it?” This episode is for you. This week, Marissa Lore joins Tori to explore what happens when life forces us to Slow. Down. And. Actually. Listen. If you’re here reading this, your body is begging you to pay attention. It will whisper... until it screams. 

Through her lived experience as a high-performing  wellness executive—and a woman navigating some of life's toughest trials with admirable grace—Marissa shares the signs and soul-work that helped her release 80 pounds, reconnect with her body, and redefine what being a “complete woman” truly means to her.  

You don’t have to wait for a crisis to change. This episode is your reminder that sometimes, your biggest transformation begins with a single deep breath. Start listening to start living, for real this time. 


00:00 Arrival– The beginning is already the middle. Sit. Breathe. Introduce yourself. 
04:30 The Discomfort of Pretending– The mask of ambition versus the truth of the moment  
09:30 The Body’s Outcry – When Marissa’s body stopped whispering...and her neck blossomed with hives  
17:00 Digesting Reality – When the time came to stop swallowing the stress 
26:45  The Sacred Pause – “Is this my life?” 
33:07  Double Crisis, Singular Opportunity – What crisis teaches us about control  
41:00 Reading the Room – How to stop caring and connect with what’s inside of you 
49:16  Small Promises, Big Outcomes – How freedom begins with one small win 
56:04  Weight in Many Ways – Why the body carries what the heart has refused to hold 
1:00:00  Permission to Rest– Some burdens were never yours. Now is the time to let yourself release.  
 
Tori Poulter | IG: @shala_hormonehealth 
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4 months ago
59 minutes

The Complete Woman
The Complete Woman Podcast is a heartfelt space dedicated to exploring every aspect of a woman’s wellbeing, from physical health to emotional and mental wellness. Whether you're navigating a particular stage in life or simply seeking a deep sense of connection, this podcast is for you. Join host Tori Poulter to celebrate the beauty of being a woman; we are all complex, perfectly imperfect, often confident, and always spectacular. Tune in every Wednesday to learn from shared stories and experiences with a focus on support and finding realistic solutions to help you thrive through the hormonal and emotional changes we all experience in life, particularly through perimenopause and menopause. Each of us is worthy of joy -- let's thrive together.