Join us as I chat with Surabhi, my twin (j/k), over a cup of tea. Surabhi shares her story with us on identity loss as a teenage immigrant and how she navigated her way through these years. She talks about the pressure to 'fit in' and living two completely different lives, all while trying to figure out who you really are.
Surabhi and I share so much in common that even after the recording we talked for hours. So I basically call her my twin!
Be that fly on the wall today, grab a nice cup of tea and hit play!
Surabhi Veitch is a physiotherapist and Pregnancy/Post partum coach who is passionate about helping women live their best lives. You can reach her at www.thepassionatephysio.ca or on instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/thepassionatephysio
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When you marry someone at will, you step into a life full of aspirations, dreams and desires. But what happens when that marriage slowly starts becoming toxic and abusive? How do you even recognize the signs when you may be in denial? How do you seek help? The thought of getting a divorce and moving forward in life as a single mom is one that is daunting and stigmatized in the community. How do you move past that and see light at the end of the tunnel?
Today I chat with Taneet Kaur, who is a writer and a single mom of two girls, as she tells her story of how she broke the cycle for her daughters.
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i am a mother’s womb
empty and abandoned
all i want
is to be with my baby
i often dream that he is inside of me
cuddled and wrapped in my blanket
i fear that i will be forgotten by mother
as i am already forgotten
by the life i once created
mother’s heart keeps me up at night
when it beats
it reminds me of him
the one i sheltered for nine months
it was a long journey to conception
and i couldn’t bring him into this world
the way i had hoped
keep me in the sunlight so i can soak in the rays
and take care of me
i am here to nurture and protect mother too
remember me for i gave life to the two
by simi @MamasHighOnChai
How does one navigate through the complexities of culture intertwined with the challenges of infertility. An anonymous story takes us through the journey of a couple who discover their infertility and the barriers they face in the name of misogyny and gender biases. Y'all choosing science is not an option for some but a must. Nevertheless, it sucks every ounce of your mental, physical, and emotional energy out of you. Can you imagine adding a cultural layer to all of this? oh...the things they hear from their families and the society!
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well-behaved indian women, a debut novel by Saumya Dave, is a fictional tale of mother-daughter relationships across three generations. It is a one of a kind story that beautifully portrays the complexities and intricacies of womanhood and motherhood in the Indian culture. Since its release in July 2020, the book has been flying off the shelves and has had remarkable reviews. We meet with Saumya for some chai and learn more about her journey as an author in creating this contemporary piece of art. Saumya talks about how each of the main characters came to life through her writing process and how some parts of the characters that she explored in her book may have come from her own personal experiences. We delve into what it really takes to become an author, who is a woman of colour, in today's modern world. Connect with us on Instagram @mamashighonchai and @saumyajdave
Last week we were in conversation with Dhara as she walked us through her fertility journey. This week we continue to explore her story and discover the impacts of IVF on several aspects of her life. What goes through her mind when she finds out she has less than 3% chance of getting pregnant? what was the role of her husband as they went through the most testing phase of their marriage? How did she cope with all the treatments, the drugs, the hormone injections? What was the impact of all this on her physical and mental well being? Really, what does it take to choose science as an option to have a baby!
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