You’ve said it—maybe under your breath, maybe in the kitchen, maybe five times before 9 a.m.: “Why can’t they just do it on their own?”
In this empowering episode, Christy-Faith dives into one of the most common struggles in homeschool life—kids who won’t work independently. If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only thing standing between your child and productivity, this one’s for you.
Spoiler: independence isn’t selfish—it’s a gift. And it can change everything.
The Christy-Faith Show | Ep. 72
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🎧 SHOW RECAP
Teaching your child to work independently isn’t just about giving yourself a break (though yes, please)—it’s about equipping your child with confidence, resilience, and real-world readiness.
✅ Why doing less for your kids is actually doing more
✅ How to create routines that support independence
✅ When to step back—and how not to micromanage
✅ Tips for time management, goal setting, and real-life responsibility
✅ Why intrinsic motivation beats sticker charts every time
✅ The role of failure, struggle, and grace in building confidence
Whether your child is five or fifteen, this episode is packed with tools to help you shift from overwhelm to empowerment.
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💬 What’s helped your kids become more independent in your homeschool? Share your wins and workarounds in the comments!