Tim Curtis spent his first career in the elite SAS, but somehow, parenting remains his toughest mission yet. A self-confessed “average father” and not an expert in much related to kids, he’s on a quest to answer a question that parents, teachers, coaches, and pretty much every adult has asked him:
”How do we build resilience in kids?”
From the bestselling co-author of The Resilience Shield and co-host of The Unforgiving60, this podcast dives into the science and stories behind resilience—minus the fluff. Tim brings in world-class experts, unpacks practical tools, and shares real-life insights to help the whole village (that’s you!) raise kids who can handle life’s curveballs.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help your kids bounce back, stress less, and grow into kind, confident young adults—without the usual parenting clichés—this is the podcast for you.
Buckle up, it’s time to Build Resilient Kids!
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Tim Curtis spent his first career in the elite SAS, but somehow, parenting remains his toughest mission yet. A self-confessed “average father” and not an expert in much related to kids, he’s on a quest to answer a question that parents, teachers, coaches, and pretty much every adult has asked him:
”How do we build resilience in kids?”
From the bestselling co-author of The Resilience Shield and co-host of The Unforgiving60, this podcast dives into the science and stories behind resilience—minus the fluff. Tim brings in world-class experts, unpacks practical tools, and shares real-life insights to help the whole village (that’s you!) raise kids who can handle life’s curveballs.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help your kids bounce back, stress less, and grow into kind, confident young adults—without the usual parenting clichés—this is the podcast for you.
Buckle up, it’s time to Build Resilient Kids!
Marty Doolan – NSW Firefighter, Outdoor Educator, Father of 2, Shaping Resilience through Risk and Reflection
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57 minutes
3 weeks ago
Marty Doolan – NSW Firefighter, Outdoor Educator, Father of 2, Shaping Resilience through Risk and Reflection
Episode Sub-title: Breathe, Climb, Adapt: Marty Doolan on Nature’s Role in Raising Strong Kids
Episode Show Notes
In this episode of the Building Resilient Kids podcast, host Tim Curtis speaks with Marty Doolan — a NSW Fire and Rescue firefighter, outdoor educator, father of two, and lifelong adventurer.
Marty shares reflections from years spent guiding young people in the wild and responding to emergencies on the front line. His insights draw from two high-stakes domains — firefighting and outdoor education — and reveal what these worlds can teach us about how kids build emotional strength, courage, and problem-solving skills.
This is a wide-ranging conversation on nature, parenting, discomfort, and self-regulation — with practical wisdom for parents, teachers, and coaches helping kids find their inner footing.
Key Themes and Takeaways
Growing up in the bush and how early immersion in nature shaped Marty’s identity and career
Why outdoor education is less about physical strength and more about mindset, courage, and emotion
The link between perceived risk, real growth, and meaningful challenge in controlled environments
What firefighting taught Marty about pressure, calmness, and presence under stress
Regulating emotions through breath, routine, and team support
How parents can let kids struggle safely without rescuing them too quickly
The importance of modelling vulnerability, reflection, and honest emotion
Peer influence in outdoor programs: how leadership, encouragement, and language shape group dynamics
Making space for curiosity, play, and growth without expectation or pressure
More About Marty
Marty Doolan is a full-time firefighter with NSW Fire and Rescue, and a part-time outdoor educator. He spent years guiding in the Blue Mountains and taught outdoor leadership to young adults before transitioning into emergency services. Now a father of two young children, Marty continues to apply his knowledge of risk, resilience, and human performance to both professional and family life. He brings an open, self-aware, and experience-driven perspective to the conversation around how kids grow stronger through challenge.
Resources
NSW Fire and Rescuehttps://www.fire.nsw.gov.au
Outward Bound Australia (example of programs similar to those discussed)https://www.outwardbound.org.au
The Resilience Shield – Model referenced throughout the episodehttps://resilienceshield.com
Nature Play Australia – Encouraging unstructured outdoor playhttps://www.natureplay.org.au
Project Rockit – Building peer support and leadership in youthhttps://www.projectrockit.com.au
Breathwork Australia – Understanding breath as a regulation toolhttps://www.breathworkaustralia.com.au
The Building Resilient Kids Podcast
Tim Curtis spent his first career in the elite SAS, but somehow, parenting remains his toughest mission yet. A self-confessed “average father” and not an expert in much related to kids, he’s on a quest to answer a question that parents, teachers, coaches, and pretty much every adult has asked him:
”How do we build resilience in kids?”
From the bestselling co-author of The Resilience Shield and co-host of The Unforgiving60, this podcast dives into the science and stories behind resilience—minus the fluff. Tim brings in world-class experts, unpacks practical tools, and shares real-life insights to help the whole village (that’s you!) raise kids who can handle life’s curveballs.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help your kids bounce back, stress less, and grow into kind, confident young adults—without the usual parenting clichés—this is the podcast for you.
Buckle up, it’s time to Build Resilient Kids!