Finding someone SUCKS. It's an emotionally painful and draining experience, but it doesn't have to suck that bad. In this video I talk about a lot of the mistakes I've made in the past with trying to find someone to be in a relationship with, including removing your ego to let go, stop self-sabotaging, the best approach to find someone, and how you can litmus test for good people. This video was very much a journal entry and helped me a lot LOL, so I hope it could do the same for you or help bring new perspective to your experience with finding a partner. My info: https://linktr.ee/thebloomerspodcast 🌸TIMESTAMPS🌸 0:00 intro 3:45 how removing ego will help you let go and create a relationship 7:42 recovering from self-sabotaging 12:41 why lots of Gen Z doesn't want relationships 16:56 the better approach to finding your partner 22:12 how to test for good people 27:02 outro recorded November 9th 2024