
"Use your words." But what if the words don’t exist yet?
In Part 3 of my Big Feelings 101 series, I dive deep into emotional expression and vocabulary - how children move from raw feelings to regulated communication, and why the way we respond to their emotions matters more than we think.
You’ll hear:
💬 Why some children stop showing emotions (and what that really means)
💬 How emotional language builds brain pathways for regulation
💬 The difference between naming feelings and truly connecting them to experience
💬 Four ways to build emotional vocabulary that go beyond charts and scripts
💬 What “display rules” are - and how we teach context without shutting down authenticity
This episode is your guide to turning emotional expression into emotional intelligence - so children can feel their feelings and share them in ways that deepen connection.
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