In this episode of The Birth Lounge podcast, HeHe shines a light on the often-overlooked role of doulas in the NICU. While most doula trainings don’t cover NICU-specific education, families navigating this space need that extra layer of support.  Special guest Mary Farrelly, a NICU nurse, doula, and educator, joins the conversation to talk about the unique challenges families face in the NICU, from feeding goals to bonding to the critical transition home. Mary shares how doulas can bridge the gap between families and medical teams, showing up with trauma-informed care and warm, collaborative energy. She also introduces her NICU Doula Academy, which is training birth professionals to better support NICU families through compassion and evidence-based knowledge. This episode is packed with tips, strategies, and heart-centered insight for doulas who want to expand their impact and confidently support families in the NICU. 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Doula Support in NICU 01:00 Welcome to The Birth Lounge Podcast 01:37 Introducing The Birth Lounge App 03:50 Navigating the NICU as a Doula 04:59 Meet Mary Farrelly: NICU Nurse and Doula 06:32 The Role of Doulas in the NICU 10:02 Emotional and Practical Support for NICU Families 20:44 The Drama Triangle in Doula Work 25:01 Bridging the Gap Between Doulas and Healthcare Professionals 39:22 Establishing Doula Roles in the NICU 39:41 Modeling Safety and Building Rapport 41:21 Warm Doula Energy and Collaboration 45:15 Encouraging Family Involvement in Care 52:08 Supporting Bonding and Skin-to-Skin Contact 56:42 Facilitating Feeding Goals in the NICU 01:01:13 Post-Discharge Support and Transition Home 01:08:35 NICU Doula Certification and Training 01:13:24 Final Thoughts and Resources Guest Bio: Mary Farrelly is a certified NICU nurse, doula, and educator who helps bridge the gap between families and the NICU with evidence-based, empowering support. As the founder of The NICU Translator, she creates resources and trainings to help both parents and professionals feel more confident navigating life in—and after—the NICU. Mary is also the creator of the NICU Doula Academy, a certification program that trains doulas and perinatal professionals in trauma-informed, NICU-specific support. Through workshops, birth planning tools, and professional education, Mary is on a mission to create more joy and less trauma in the NICU experience INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tranquilitybyhehe/  Connect with Mary on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thenicutranslator/    BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/join Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone: https://www.thebirthlounge.com/app-download-page   LINKS MENTIONED: https://www.thenicutranslator.com Free NICU Birth Plan Template: https://app.thenicutranslator.com/nicubirthplan Get on the NICU Doula Academy Waitlist here: https://www.thenicutranslator.com/nicu-doula-academy