In this episode, Alexandria Fairbairn shares her personal journey through breastfeeding, discussing the challenges she faced, the importance of prenatal lactation support, and her thoughts on tandem nursing while pregnant. She emphasizes the emotional connection breastfeeding provides and offers valuable advice for new mothers navigating their own breastfeeding journeys.   Takeaways Alexandria is a mother of two, with a 15-month-old daughter and another baby on the way.Breastfeeding was more challenging than she anticipated, especially with her first child.She experienced pain and difficulties due to her daughter's lip and tongue ties.Alexandria emphasizes the importance of prenatal lactation consultations to prepare for breastfeeding.She found support from lactation consultants and a community of mothers helpful during her journey.Sleep deprivation significantly impacted her mental health and breastfeeding experience.Alexandria considered weaning at times but ultimately chose to continue breastfeeding.She highlights the need for self-care and support from family and friends while breastfeeding.Alexandria encourages mothers to prioritize their mental health and not feel guilty about their choices.She is open to tandem nursing and values the connection it provides with her children. CONNECT | Alexandria Fairbairn - https://www.instagram.com/alexandria.fairbairn/  Birth In Focus Community Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/909240249740116/  Birth in Focus Website - www.samanthatollison.com/birthinfocus  Birth in Focus Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/birthinfocuspodcast/  Samantha Tollison Birth Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/samanthatollisonbirth/