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The Baddest Bitch in the Building
Neeki Motabar
52 episodes
6 days ago

The patriarchy was built to outlive us. So I learned its rules, blindspots, loopholes, and lies so I could tear it apart from the inside out. If the system won’t burn down on its own, then we enter the building and light the match. 💋




"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" - Anonymous


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The patriarchy was built to outlive us. So I learned its rules, blindspots, loopholes, and lies so I could tear it apart from the inside out. If the system won’t burn down on its own, then we enter the building and light the match. 💋




"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" - Anonymous


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Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt
The Baddest Bitch in the Building
44 minutes 56 seconds
4 months ago
Girly law of power #21: Stop giving the benefit of the doubt

If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you.


On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain why we have a gut feeling. But that doesn't make it any less valid.


In this episode, we'll discuss:

  • The surprising origin of "the benefit of the doubt"
  • How to unlearn the nice girl conditioning that fools us into blindly seeing the good in everyone
  • Why giving the benefit of the doubt is a way to avoid short-term discomfort while inviting long-term disrespect
  • How to stop giving the benefit of the doubt without coming off as a jerk


Btw here's the article I mentioned on short-term thinking


✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo


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The Baddest Bitch in the Building

The patriarchy was built to outlive us. So I learned its rules, blindspots, loopholes, and lies so I could tear it apart from the inside out. If the system won’t burn down on its own, then we enter the building and light the match. 💋




"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" - Anonymous


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.