Tenderness isn’t weakness, it’s the final test of manhood. In this raw Relationship Wednesday episode of The Bad Influence Podcast with Bjordan Banderas, we rip apart the old script of “toughness” that taught men to shut down, avoid vulnerability, and mistake silence for strength. Real power isn’t in control, it’s in presence. It’s in holding space when everything inside you wants to run. It’s in leading with emotional depth, not just performance.

If you’ve been taught to armor up instead of open up, this is your wake-up call. Because a man who can hold a heart without breaking it has mastered the hardest form of strength. Drop the walls. Rewrite the code. Lead with presence, not performance.

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