Samek shares the experience of hitting a wall whenever he reaches for something he wants, how it connects to early trauma, and what it’s like to navigate that block in community. Harry explores embracing masculine energy, working with guilt, and the edges of authenticity in dating and relationships. Together they look at boundaries, saying no, and how rejection and love show up in both directions.
Timestamps:
00:43 Hitting a wall when wanting
03:30 Childhood trauma and fear of death
12:16 Learning through community patterns
17:25 Sweetness, empowerment, and masculine energy
23:16 Flirting, triggers, and authenticity
29:26 Who am I without money
38:26 Shame, fear, and the wall of guilt
47:12 Bullshit, wants, and the wall again
56:39 Avoiding no and finding boundaries