Julia Malakiman is a Silicon Valley based dating coach for men, specializing in helping introverted and analytical guys build confidence, master social skills, and create genuine connections with women. Through in-person coaching, live approaching practice, and mindset training, she’s guided countless men to overcome fear of rejection and attract the women they truly want.To connect with Julia:https://thedatingadvisory.com/https://www.instagram.com/juliamalakiman/https://www.youtube.com/@thedatingadvisory0:00 Introduction to Julia, who helps shy, introverted, awkward men be more comfortable1:45 Helping shy, introverted men to show up and be themselves2:41 Julia's typical client 3:13 Inexperienced with dating 4:20 Why so many men struggle with dating 6:10 Men follow rules to solve this 8:33 Exposure to real life scenarios is how you learn 10:40 Approach women with low stake in public to get practice 15:55 Say anything as opening line. It works. 17:25 What’s one thing you can say that is easy to use 19:45 Men's interpretation of women's reactions is sometimes incorrect20:23 Healthy relationships start here 21:21 Julie loves to take guys out in the field 22:00 How and what you think of yourself matters 24:28 The one thing we are looking for in men 27:07 Loneliness in men is real. So important to have at least one single friend 34:30 You don't need to get her number every time. That is not always the goal*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: may@twoasianmatchmakers.comWebsite: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayAsian friends can set each other up: https://www.facebook.com/groups/datethemasiansYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/twoasianmatchmakersTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how there are men out there that are high net worth, super successful, and accomplished in their fields but they are too busy to date and value time more than money? They have trouble finding women to have a meaningful connection so what we do is find out who they’re trying to attract, screen the women for them, and make introductions for them. They meet and fall in love. May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating and Relationship Coach. She founded Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking company. May has been helping successful and accomplished men in the United States to find an Asian partner since 2009. May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. She is always learning and teaching in the industry. May currently mentors other Asian matchmakers to excel in the industry. May has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, Huffington Post, and numerous publications.