What if everything you’ve been chasing is actually keeping you stuck?
In this powerful episode, Ian sits down with Mike Ferraris — an engineer-turned-entrepreneur whose journey exposes the darker side of success: burnout, people-pleasing, and the relentless need to prove yourself.
They explore the invisible pressures men face to constantly perform, the nervous system cost of being “the good guy,” and why even the most high-functioning careers can leave you feeling completely empty. Mike shares how he began remembering who he really was — and the pivotal mindset shift that changed everything.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt like they’re doing everything “right”… and still not feeling fulfilled.
💡 Key Themes:✔️ The silent burnout behind “high performance”✔️ Why people-pleasing is a trauma response, not a virtue✔️ What happens when your nervous system never feels safe✔️ How to escape the achievement loop and reconnect with purpose✔️ Turning inner work into your greatest leadership tool
🎧 This isn’t just another podcast — it’s a mirror, and maybe a turning point for you or somebody else.
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