Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
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Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
Why People Cheat: 10 Excuses Cheaters Make And Why They're All LIES!
The ANTD Podcast
44 minutes
4 months ago
Why People Cheat: 10 Excuses Cheaters Make And Why They're All LIES!
Cheating doesn’t start with the act — it starts with a lie. In this episode, Amee and D. expose the 10 excuses cheaters use to justify betrayal, break down the truth behind each one, and share their raw journey of healing, forgiveness, and redemption after infidelity. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re trying to understand why people cheat, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and the steps to heal.
👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇
📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses
🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching
🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls!
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📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio
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⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
00:00 – Intro: “Cheating Starts With a Lie”
00:52 – The First Excuse: “I wasn’t getting what I needed at home”
04:20 – “This is just what men do”
07:15 – The lie of “It just happened”
09:55 – “I didn’t mean to hurt you”
14:50 – Sex addiction, porn, and spiritual warfare
17:30 – “I was going through a lot emotionally”
20:10 – “I didn’t think I’d get caught”
22:45 – Jezebel spirit and public backlash
25:50 – “They tempted me”
27:00 – “I didn’t feel loved or appreciated”
29:45 – “We were on a break”
31:20 – D’s confession during Amee’s pregnancy
33:55 – “I thought it was already over”
36:10 – What cheating really costs your soul
38:00 – Redemption, restoration, and how God used the pain
44:00 – Closing encouragement + how to heal with God
The ANTD Podcast
Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
