Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
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Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
How to LOVE AGAIN After Infidelity (3 Steps The Will Help You Heal)
The ANTD Podcast
24 minutes
3 months ago
How to LOVE AGAIN After Infidelity (3 Steps The Will Help You Heal)
In Episode 66 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we answer a question we get asked all the time: How do you LOVE AGAIN after you’ve been CHEATED ON? We dive deep into the truth, tools, and faith it took for us to rebuild after repeated years of infidelity. If you’ve chosen to stay after betrayal, this episode gives you the hope and practical help to heal and love again.
Learn how daily choices, emotional safety, and spiritual maturity create a foundation for love that lasts—even after deep betrayal. We break down the power of consistency, prayer, forgiveness, and grace when you're working to rebuild what was broken. If you’ve ever felt like giving up, this episode will remind you that redemption is real—and love is still possible.
Stick around to the end where we will show you how to pray together and build a bod that cannot be broken!
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00:00 - Why love after infidelity must be a choice, not a feeling
01:22 - Point 1: Love is a daily decision (1 Corinthians 13:7)
02:00 - Why feelings are temporary and actions matter
03:49 - Love is about giving, not receiving
05:13 - The risk of loving again after betrayal
06:26 - Daily tip: Do one deliberate act of kindness
07:20 - The struggle of the betrayed spouse vs. the remorseful cheater
09:07 - Men, responsibility, and why cheating is always a choice
10:20 - Why this podcast focuses so much on infidelity
11:09 - Point 2: Small consistent actions rebuild emotional safety
12:31 - Connection rituals that actually work (Gottman Institute data)
13:02 - Why the little things are the big things
13:56 - How the cheater should rebuild without being told
15:26 - Daily effort and non-negotiable habits
16:45 - Why men especially need hugs and affection
17:54 - Physical and spiritual unity in relationships
18:18 - Point 3: God’s model of love and daily mercies (Ephesians 5:1-2)
19:33 - Why prayer together matters (Family Life Study)
20:38 - Daily tip: Close your day in prayer together
21:21 - Why people fear prayer more than intimacy
22:17 - How to pray simply and specifically
23:00 - Final challenge: 3 action steps to try this week
23:26 - Closing prayer for couples healing from infidelity
The ANTD Podcast
Unfiltered wisdom on life and growing your relationship with God and your significant other. We're a married couple with over 16 years of experience, sharing our stories of overcoming hard things, including cheating, death of family members, parenting, business and more to grow closer together and closer to God everyday. Discover practical tips for building a strong spiritual foundation, better communication, and building a loving, lasting relationship, all while depending on and giving glory to Jesus for the strength and guidance along the way. We hope you enjoy and we'll see you in the comments!
