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The Amiel Show
Amiel Handelsman: Executive Coach and Change Consultant
50 episodes
9 months ago
The Amiel Show provides people who are hungry to grow as leaders and human beings with cutting-edge conversations about leadership. What's the one skill or quality you can improve that will build your public identity as a competent and trusted leader? What does it take to manage your commitments to yourself and others so that you produce better results with less stress? How can brain science inform how you develop people and organizations? What becomes possible when you reframe organizational politics as the practice of understanding and aligning with others' interests and concerns? How can you make your conversations and meetings more powerful and impactful?

Join Amiel Handelsman, executive coach and author of Practice Greatness: Escape Small Thinking, Listen Like A Master, And Lead With Your Best, as he explores these questions with seasoned executives and pragmatic thought leaders.

For all past episodes, visit www.amielhandelsman.com
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The Amiel Show provides people who are hungry to grow as leaders and human beings with cutting-edge conversations about leadership. What's the one skill or quality you can improve that will build your public identity as a competent and trusted leader? What does it take to manage your commitments to yourself and others so that you produce better results with less stress? How can brain science inform how you develop people and organizations? What becomes possible when you reframe organizational politics as the practice of understanding and aligning with others' interests and concerns? How can you make your conversations and meetings more powerful and impactful?

Join Amiel Handelsman, executive coach and author of Practice Greatness: Escape Small Thinking, Listen Like A Master, And Lead With Your Best, as he explores these questions with seasoned executives and pragmatic thought leaders.

For all past episodes, visit www.amielhandelsman.com
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The Amiel Show
Collaborative Leadership Through Jazz With Greg Thomas & Jewel Kinch-Thomas (Episode 110)

Greg Thomas (who previously spoke with me here and here) and Jewel Kinch-Thomas of the Jazz Leadership Project join me to explore the extraordinary ways that jazz builds collaborative leadership.
This is one of the most enjoyable conversations I’ve had on the podcast.
I learned new ways of thinking about group flow states, elite performance, and deliberately practicing in teams.
If you like this conversation, please share with friends!
Highlights

* 3:30 Two big misunderstandings people have about jazz
* 8:00 Why is jazz a more useful metaphor for leadership than orchestra or opera?
* 22:00 The rhythm section exemplifies shared leadership
* 26:00 From “that’s not my role” to using signals to help each other out
* 32:00 Constant feedback helps you perform at a high level
* 36:30 Ensemble mindset, “big ears”, and three ways to listen
* 43:00 Group flow states and grooving to the music
* 55:00 Developing excellence by practicing “in the shed”
* 1:00:30 Trading silos for shared purpose so you hum as a team

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* Jazz Leadership Project
* Tune Into Leadership, Greg and Jewel’s new blog

 

Greg Thomas (who previously spoke with me here and here) and Jewel Kinch-Thomas of the Jazz Leadership Project join me to explore the extraordinary ways that jazz builds collaborative leadership.
This is one of the most enjoyable conversations I’ve had on the podcast.
I learned new ways of thinking about group flow states, elite performance, and deliberately practicing in teams.
If you like this conversation, please share with friends!
Highlights

* 3:30 Two big misunderstandings people have about jazz
* 8:00 Why is jazz a more useful metaphor for leadership than orchestra or opera?
* 22:00 The rhythm section exemplifies shared leadership
* 26:00 From “that’s not my role” to using signals to help each other out
* 32:00 Constant feedback helps you perform at a high level
* 36:30 Ensemble mindset, “big ears”, and three ways to listen
* 43:00 Group flow states and grooving to the music
* 55:00 Developing excellence by practicing “in the shed”
* 1:00:30 Trading silos for shared purpose so you hum as a team

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* Jazz Leadership Project
* Tune Into Leadership, Greg and Jewel’s new blog

 
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6 years ago
1 hour 6 minutes 59 seconds

The Amiel Show
Integral Politics With Jeff Salzman (Episode 109)
Integral politics involves appreciating what’s good, true, and beautiful and what’s missing in every worldview in our culture. This is neither the mushy middle nor mere theory, but instead a practical way forward in a puzzling world. The idea of integral politics is straightforward: listen closely to every perspective, take the best, and jettison the rest. Breathe in the truth. Breathe out the partial nature of it. Just as a good health program involves supplementing different practices, integral politics asks: why not also supplement different worldviews?
A Leading Voice Of Integral Politics
For many years, Jeff Salzman has been a leading voice of integral politics. Through his podcast, The Daily Evolver, Jeff has brought this integral vantage point to everything from Presidential politics to #metoo to movies to economics.
This week, Jeff joins me to describe the tribal, warrior, traditional, modern, and postmodern worldviews and the many ways they battle in today’s politics. We discuss political correctness on college campuses, Cold War anticommunism, why God is both everywhere and nowhere, how life is a heartbreaking catastrophe yet we go on, the post-war liberal consensus and how it shattered, what Jeff does when encountering politicians who trigger him, why psychopaths are people too, and how as a young adult Jeff got tired of sitting through yet another heterosexual love scene at the movies. Integral politics has something to say about all of this!
Integral Politics Stretches The Mind
This discussion of integral politics will stretch your mind, and it’s longer than our average episode, so you’ll get extended mind-stretching! (Note: the audio quality on my end in this interview is less than usual. I don’t know why.)
The Amiel Show is taking a six-week summer break, so you will have time to savor this conversation before I return with a new episode in September.
In other news, I turned 49 on Tuesday. I am dedicating my 50th year on the planet to sharing my interviews and ideas with more people. Way more people. I call it the Big Tribe project. You are a huge part of it, so here’s step one: if you are intrigued or inspired by what you hear, please share this interview with friends and encourage them to subscribe to the podcast.
I’m also offering a free copy of my E-Book, Leading When You’re Ticked Off And Other Tips For Mastering Complexity, in this blog post on my web site.
Highlights

* 9:00 The discipline and faith of the traditional worldview. Jeff as church camper of the year.
* 14:00 As humanity moves forward, there are more stages of development present
* 21:00 There is a hierarchy of growth that is natural and beautiful
* 26:30 Ken Wilber’s Four Quadrants
* 31:00 We get sick to death of the stage we’re at
* 38:00 Posmodernism and “Where the fuck am I” in this movie?
* 46:00 In a good-versus-evil society, you’d be irresponsible to not annihilate your enemy
* 1:04:00 When you have a stack of worldviews at war with each other
* 1:10:00 It’s good we’re battling in comments sections, not with clubs and knives
* 1:24:00 The power of Mr. Trump’s shameless grandiose ego

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* The Daily Evolver podcast

 
Integral politics involves appreciating what’s good, true, and beautiful and what’s missing in every worldview in our culture. This is neither the mushy middle nor mere theory, but instead a practical way forward in a puzzling world. The idea of integral politics is straightforward: listen closely to every perspective, take the best, and jettison the rest. Breathe in the truth. Breathe out the partial nature of it.
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6 years ago
1 hour 32 minutes 23 seconds

The Amiel Show
Sustainable Enterprises Over 25 Years With Mark Milstein (Episode 108)
Mark Milstein has been thinking and talking about sustainable enterprises for a quarter century.
In this conversation—which continues the Amiel Show’s series on climate change, sustainable business, and clean tech—Mark and I discuss his professional and intellectual journey, how the field of sustainable enterprise has grown, what he’s created at Cornell, why the private sector matters, where sustainability happens inside companies, and who signs up for his classes these days.
Mark and I hadn’t spoken for 15-20 years, so this was also a fun chance to catch up and debate whether or not “Mimbo: The Gentle Art of Japanese Extortion” is relevant for people leading in politically complex environments.
If you like what you hear, please share. Podcast listening is a participatory sport!
Highlights

* 9:00 Mark is dissatisfied intellectual with his MBA program and adds a second degree
* 15:00 A professor tells Mark, “I do not like you people.”
* 20:00 Mark reverses a huge decision at the mailbox
* 28:00 Are companies the problem and/or the solution?
* 36:30 Mark creates a curriculum in sustainability at Cornell
* 52:00 Faculty resistance to talking about sustainable enterprise has broken down
* 58:00 Different strokes by different folks: CSR, environment management, sustainable enterprise
* 1:06:00 Unilever, living wages, frontier markets, Base of the Pyramid
* 1:12:00 What is greenwashing?
* 1:19:00 Overtourism, ecotourism, and destination managers

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* Center for Sustainable Global Enterprise at SC Johnson College of Business at Cornell University

 
Mark Milstein has been thinking and talking about sustainable enterprises for a quarter century.
In this conversation—which continues the Amiel Show’s series on climate change, sustainable business, and clean tech—Mark and I discuss his professional and intellectual journey, how the field of sustainable enterprise has grown, what he’s created at Cornell, why the private sector matters, where sustainability happens inside companies, and who signs up for his classes these days.
Mark and I hadn’t spoken for 15-20 years, so this was also a fun chance to catch up and debate whether or not “Mimbo: The Gentle Art of Japanese Extortion” is relevant for people leading in politically complex environments.
If you like what you hear, please share. Podcast listening is a participatory sport!
Highlights

* 9:00 Mark is dissatisfied intellectual with his MBA program and adds a second degree
* 15:00 A professor tells Mark, “I do not like you people.”
* 20:00 Mark reverses a huge decision at the mailbox
* 28:00 Are companies the problem and/or the solution?
* 36:30 Mark creates a curriculum in sustainability at Cornell
* 52:00 Faculty resistance to talking about sustainable enterprise has broken down
* 58:00 Different strokes by different folks: CSR, environment management, sustainable enterprise
* 1:06:00 Unilever, living wages, frontier markets, Base of the Pyramid
* 1:12:00 What is greenwashing?
* 1:19:00 Overtourism, ecotourism, and destination managers

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* Center for Sustainable Global Enterprise at SC Johnson College of Business at Cornell University

 
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6 years ago
1 hour 28 minutes 36 seconds

The Amiel Show
My Journey With Sustainable Business (Episode 107)
This week, we turn the tables.
Chris Chittenden, senior ontological coach and past podcast guest, interviews me about my journey with sustainable business.
I found the experience liberating.
We discuss why I started a series on climate change, clean technology and sustainable business, the people and ideas who have influenced me, how I work with regret, and how I express these commitments in the life I was given.
I hope that this taste of my journey gives you insight and courage on your own journey.
If you get value from this, please share with friends.
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This week, we turn the tables.
Chris Chittenden, senior ontological coach and past podcast guest, interviews me about my journey with sustainable business.
I found the experience liberating.
We discuss why I started a series on climate change, clean technology and sustainable business, the people and ideas who have influenced me, how I work with regret, and how I express these commitments in the life I was given.
I hope that this taste of my journey gives you insight and courage on your own journey.
If you get value from this, please share with friends.
Listen to the Podcast
 
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6 years ago
50 minutes 57 seconds

The Amiel Show
Climate Change—Walking On A Knife’s Edge With Theo Horesh (Episode 106)
Think about climate change. This can feel like walking on a knife’s edge.
This week, Theo Horesh brings this perspective and many other fresh insights to my series on sustainable business, climate change, and clean technology.
Theo and I discuss what it is about human brains and human evolution that makes climate change such an elusive topic, how fascism relates to climate change (hey, why stop at one foreboding topic?), why apocalyptic thinking exists and how it looks different on the political left and right, the gifts and limitations of the Go Local movement, and practical tips for expanding our hearts and minds. In the middle of all this, I jump in to explain why today’s progressive is yesterday’s Eisenhower Republican.
Theo is great at explaining complex topics without either squashing their complexity or confusing the listener. And I always end conversations with him feeling wiser and more engaged than when we started.
Highlights

* 6:00 How do fascist leaders affect climate change?
* 12:00 How Amiel’s computer programming ineptitude prevented nuclear war
* 17:00 Different ways to interpret big storms
* 23:00 How facing climate change became the structure of Theo’s life
* 27:30 It’s easy to be vague and apocalyptic
* 35:00 Varieties of conservative apocalyptic thinking
* 39:00 True But Partial Challenge—the Go Local movement
* 41:30 You have to get your inspiration from somewhere
* 50:00 Amiel redefines the political center
* 57:30 Reading The Economist gives Theo the “wows”

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* Theo’s latest book, The Holocausts We All Deny: Collective Trauma In The World Today

 
Think about climate change. This can feel like walking on a knife’s edge.
This week, Theo Horesh brings this perspective and many other fresh insights to my series on sustainable business, climate change, and clean technology.
Theo and I discuss what it is about human brains and human evolution that makes climate change such an elusive topic, how fascism relates to climate change (hey, why stop at one foreboding topic?), why apocalyptic thinking exists and how it looks different on the political left and right, the gifts and limitations of the Go Local movement, and practical tips for expanding our hearts and minds. In the middle of all this, I jump in to explain why today’s progressive is yesterday’s Eisenhower Republican.
Theo is great at explaining complex topics without either squashing their complexity or confusing the listener. And I always end conversations with him feeling wiser and more engaged than when we started.
Highlights

* 6:00 How do fascist leaders affect climate change?
* 12:00 How Amiel’s computer programming ineptitude prevented nuclear war
* 17:00 Different ways to interpret big storms
* 23:00 How facing climate change became the structure of Theo’s life
* 27:30 It’s easy to be vague and apocalyptic
* 35:00 Varieties of conservative apocalyptic thinking
* 39:00 True But Partial Challenge—the Go Local movement
* 41:30 You have to get your inspiration from somewhere
* 50:00 Amiel redefines the political center
* 57:30 Reading The Economist gives Theo the “wows”

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* Theo’s latest book,
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6 years ago
1 hour 7 minutes 12 seconds

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Climate Change & No-Matter-What Commitment With Terry Patten (Episode 105)
What if we reframed climate change as an invitation to live a full and meaningful life? For business leaders, what if it provided the catalyzing purpose that so many of us seek? For my colleagues in the field of leadership development, why not us, and why not now?
The first question is the theme of Terry Patten’s extraordinary book, A New Republic of the Heart: An Ethos for Revolutionaries.
This week, Terry joins me to discuss the book and its relevance for leaders, coaches, and all of us. It is the third episode in my new series on climate change, sustainable business, and clean technology.
Find a quiet environment. Pull up a seat. Grab a cup of tea. Have a listen.
And if you like it, please share with people who would enjoy it, too.
Highlights

* 7:00 When we point at a problem, three of our fingers are pointing back at ourselves
* 22:00 We have more to metabolize than we ever have before
* 28:30 How insane it is to become unhappy
* 35:30 Noticing that I’ve always been doing the best I can
* 40:00 The “consensus trance”
* 46:00 Terry takes the True But Partial Challenge
* 56:00 This is all improv
* 1:02:00 No-matter-what commitment

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* Terry’s web site
* Terry’s book, A New Republic of the Heart

What if we reframed climate change as an invitation to live a full and meaningful life? For business leaders, what if it provided the catalyzing purpose that so many of us seek? For my colleagues in the field of leadership development, why not us, and why not now?
The first question is the theme of Terry Patten’s extraordinary book, A New Republic of the Heart: An Ethos for Revolutionaries.
This week, Terry joins me to discuss the book and its relevance for leaders, coaches, and all of us. It is the third episode in my new series on climate change, sustainable business, and clean technology.
Find a quiet environment. Pull up a seat. Grab a cup of tea. Have a listen.
And if you like it, please share with people who would enjoy it, too.
Highlights

* 7:00 When we point at a problem, three of our fingers are pointing back at ourselves
* 22:00 We have more to metabolize than we ever have before
* 28:30 How insane it is to become unhappy
* 35:30 Noticing that I’ve always been doing the best I can
* 40:00 The “consensus trance”
* 46:00 Terry takes the True But Partial Challenge
* 56:00 This is all improv
* 1:02:00 No-matter-what commitment

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* Terry’s web site
* Terry’s book, A New Republic of the Heart

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6 years ago
1 hour 11 minutes 5 seconds

The Amiel Show
Sustainable Business Goes Mainstream With Kevin Wilhelm (Episode 104)

This week I launch a new series about climate change, sustainable business, and clean technology. My goal is to explore these big, complex topics from multiple perspectives, with an open heart, and for the purpose of generating positive action. Multiple perspective-taking matters because each way we frame these topics is both useful and limiting—in the terminology of integral thinking, both “true” and “partial.” An open heart matters because what’s at stake is momentous, and without it, all that’s left is a big mushy bowl of anxiety. And positive action—well, heck, that’s what it’s all about, isn’t it?
To launch this series (my interview with Ron Pernick of Clean Edge about clean tech was a prequel), I reached out to Kevin Wilhelm. Kevin is the founding leader of Sustainable Business Consulting, author of several books including Return on Sustainability, and a convincing thought leader.
In this conversation, we discuss how Kevin cut his teeth in a field that didn’t yet exist, the people who told him “that won’t happen,” how his company’s work boosts client employee engagement, his role as organizational translator, the forefathers and foremothers of the field, and how he makes sense of recent alarming reports about climate change.
One more thing. In the past two years, I’ve had the opportunity to partner with more organizations in clean tech, energy efficiency and climate change than in the previous decade before that. Growing leaders and teams in these organizations is a total joy. As I tell Kevin, if I spent 98% of my time doing this, that wouldn’t be too much. People like Kevin give me inspiration to continue reaching out and making new offers.
If you like this conversation, please share with friends.
Highlights

* 7:00 Creating a new market niche
* 20:00 From “do the right thing” to “investors are demanding this”
* 25:00 Translating and meeting people where they are at
* 29:00 Sustainability increases employee engagement, attraction, and retention
* 33:00 Stock analysts have finally caught on
* 41:00 What’s missing in the public conversation about climate change
* 45:00 Amiel’s riff on time horizons, climate change, and adult development
* 49:00 Why spend $300K watering a lawn in a forest fire region?

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* Sustainable Business Consulting

 

This week I launch a new series about climate change, sustainable business, and clean technology. My goal is to explore these big, complex topics from multiple perspectives, with an open heart, and for the purpose of generating positive action. Multiple perspective-taking matters because each way we frame these topics is both useful and limiting—in the terminology of integral thinking, both “true” and “partial.” An open heart matters because what’s at stake is momentous, and without it, all that’s left is a big mushy bowl of anxiety. And positive action—well, heck, that’s what it’s all about, isn’t it?
To launch this series (my interview with Ron Pernick of Clean Edge about clean tech was a prequel), I reached out to Kevin Wilhelm. Kevin is the founding leader of Sustainable Business Consulting, author of several books including Return on Sustainability, and a convincing thought leader.
In this conversation,
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6 years ago
57 minutes 8 seconds

The Amiel Show
No More Feedback With Carol Sanford (Episode 103)
 

This week, contrarian business thought leader Carol Sanford joins me to discuss her new book, No More Feedback.
If the title strikes you as both surprising and unnerving, welcome to the club. Within organizations giving and receiving feedback are widely considered noble acts. Although we may not be competent at feedback, we know it’s a good thing—key to personal growth and leadership development.
Carol says, “no, not really.”
In her view, any effort to ask another person where I am strong or how I could improve is intrinsically harmful, even toxic. For this reason she offers a harsh critique of annual performance reviews, competency models, and 360 degree interviews. The damage they cause is so profound (e.g. rewarding conformity, shifting attention from big promises, encouraging confirmation bias, and reducing self-reflection) and the foundation upon which they are based is so flawed that it’s foolish to tweak them.
Instead, Carol argues, get rid of feedback entirely.
Three things I learned in talking with Carol:

* I share her assessment of most of the activities that she calls “feedback.”
* When I use the term “feedback”—for example, as one of four steps in the on-the-job-practice cycle—I’m talking about something that Carol does not consider feedback because the person requesting it is authoring their own learning.
* I can stay grounded while listening to someone critique a practice near and dear to my heart, as Carol does with the Enneagram. In fact, it’s kind of fun.

Have a listen, and tell me what you think.
Highlights

* 10:00 Humans as machines, the first seedbed of feedback
* 17:00 Three foundational capacities of people to cultivate
* 24:30 Jerry, a contrarian at Weyerhaeuser pushed out for not conforming
* 32:00 Feedback raises anxiety
* 41:00 Opportunities to self-reflect can break attachment to 360 feedback
* 49:00 Why modifying feedback systems doesn’t work: the premise is flawed
* 54:00 Carol only has people assess themselves in relation to a big promise they are making in the world
* 1:02:00 Carol’s work with Seventh Generation when it was in the red
* 1:12:00 Perils of low fat diet, benefits of intermittent fasting

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* Carol’s web site

 
 

This week, contrarian business thought leader Carol Sanford joins me to discuss her new book, No More Feedback.
If the title strikes you as both surprising and unnerving, welcome to the club. Within organizations giving and receiving feedback are widely considered noble acts. Although we may not be competent at feedback, we know it’s a good thing—key to personal growth and leadership development.
Carol says, “no, not really.”
In her view, any effort to ask another person where I am strong or how I could improve is intrinsically harmful, even toxic. For this reason she offers a harsh critique of annual performance reviews, competency models, and 360 degree interviews. The damage they cause is so profound (e.g. rewarding conformity, shifting attention from big promises, encouraging confirmation bias, and reducing self-reflection) and the foundation upon which they are based is so flawed that it’s foolish to tweak them.
Instead, Carol argues, get rid of feedback entirely.
Three things I learned in talking with Carol:

* I share her assessment of most of the activities that she calls “feedback.”
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6 years ago
1 hour 18 minutes 1 second

The Amiel Show
Episode 102: Two Feet, Five Breaths (3-Minute Thursday)

Welcome to 3-minute Thursday. This week I introduce a way to bring more ease into your day.
The practice is called Two Feet, Five Breaths. It takes one minute and requires no equipment. All you need is a place to sit and some form of breathing apparatus. (I recommend the lungs.)
The other great thing about this practice? You prove once and for all that what happens in Vagus does not stay in Vagus.
That’s Vagus, the nerve, which is the best instrument for shifting your body from “fight, flight or freeze” mode to “rest and digest.”
So you can find the ease and inner calm that brings you into the current moment.
All in 3-minutes. So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
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Welcome to 3-minute Thursday. This week I introduce a way to bring more ease into your day.
The practice is called Two Feet, Five Breaths. It takes one minute and requires no equipment. All you need is a place to sit and some form of breathing apparatus. (I recommend the lungs.)
The other great thing about this practice? You prove once and for all that what happens in Vagus does not stay in Vagus.
That’s Vagus, the nerve, which is the best instrument for shifting your body from “fight, flight or freeze” mode to “rest and digest.”
So you can find the ease and inner calm that brings you into the current moment.
All in 3-minutes. So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
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6 years ago
4 minutes 29 seconds

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Learning While Sprinting With Teresa Woodland (Episode 101)

Teresa Woodland spent three decades working and living in China during its extraordinary economic and cultural transformation.
Now back in the United States, she joins me to discuss what the West can learn from China. We discuss the Chinese ability to learn while sprinting, the virtues of systems thinking and embrace of paradox, how to have a light touch with “back-of-mind” stakeholders, conversations for exploring disappointments, why it’s unwise to “wait until things so down”, and how she wins the right to be on a journey with companies.
Highlights

* 8:30 Why the Chinese chew on western models of adult development, but don’t swallow them whole
* 18:00 The talent story in China beneath the economic and policy headlines
* 26:00 Western action learning works—but is there an even more pragmatic way to learn?
* 31:00 Lessons from adopting a child and working with an orphanage
* 37:00 Creating light touches sooner with “back-of-mind” stakeholders
* 46:00 A Chinese company that looks ahead even while it’s sprinting
* 52:00 Teresa always starts with the business issues and intersperses the learning in between
* 57:00 Getting grounded by cuddling with your kids

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* Teresa Woodland’s company, WuDeLan Partners

 

Teresa Woodland spent three decades working and living in China during its extraordinary economic and cultural transformation.
Now back in the United States, she joins me to discuss what the West can learn from China. We discuss the Chinese ability to learn while sprinting, the virtues of systems thinking and embrace of paradox, how to have a light touch with “back-of-mind” stakeholders, conversations for exploring disappointments, why it’s unwise to “wait until things so down”, and how she wins the right to be on a journey with companies.
Highlights

* 8:30 Why the Chinese chew on western models of adult development, but don’t swallow them whole
* 18:00 The talent story in China beneath the economic and policy headlines
* 26:00 Western action learning works—but is there an even more pragmatic way to learn?
* 31:00 Lessons from adopting a child and working with an orphanage
* 37:00 Creating light touches sooner with “back-of-mind” stakeholders
* 46:00 A Chinese company that looks ahead even while it’s sprinting
* 52:00 Teresa always starts with the business issues and intersperses the learning in between
* 57:00 Getting grounded by cuddling with your kids

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You can download a complete, word-for-word transcript of this episode here.
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* Teresa Woodland’s company, WuDeLan Partners

 
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6 years ago
1 hour 19 seconds

The Amiel Show
Humble Leadership With Ed Schein & Peter Schein (Episode 100)

Humble Leadership. Yes, those two words belong together.
This week on the podcast, Ed and Peter Schein join me to discuss their book Humble Leadership. We talk about leadership as a verb, the relationships behind the Singapore economic miracle, innovation through psychological safety, script-based modes of adult relating, the costs of maintaining professional distance, giving up the absurd obsession with eye contact, antibodies that protect the core business, and how Ed’s curiosity landed his first big contract with Digital Equipment Corporation.
Ed Schein is Emeritus Professor at MIT where he taught in the School of Management for fifty years. Peter Schein has had a 30 year career in Silicon Valley in corporate development and business development. They are a father-son team with a powerful message for you and me.
Please share with others.
Highlights

* 4:30 It’s about the quality of the team, not you
* 17:00 Getting curious about the person behind the role
* 27:00 Opening the door to more than transactional relationships
* 36:00 Using check-ins and check-outs to improve group meetings
* 50:00 Bringing the water cooler conversation into the meeting itself
* 57:00 When relationships are asymmetrical
* 1:03:00 When company executives get threatened by genuine relating

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* Organizational Culture And Leadership Institute
* Humble Leadership by Ed Schein and Peter Schein

 

Humble Leadership. Yes, those two words belong together.
This week on the podcast, Ed and Peter Schein join me to discuss their book Humble Leadership. We talk about leadership as a verb, the relationships behind the Singapore economic miracle, innovation through psychological safety, script-based modes of adult relating, the costs of maintaining professional distance, giving up the absurd obsession with eye contact, antibodies that protect the core business, and how Ed’s curiosity landed his first big contract with Digital Equipment Corporation.
Ed Schein is Emeritus Professor at MIT where he taught in the School of Management for fifty years. Peter Schein has had a 30 year career in Silicon Valley in corporate development and business development. They are a father-son team with a powerful message for you and me.
Please share with others.
Highlights

* 4:30 It’s about the quality of the team, not you
* 17:00 Getting curious about the person behind the role
* 27:00 Opening the door to more than transactional relationships
* 36:00 Using check-ins and check-outs to improve group meetings
* 50:00 Bringing the water cooler conversation into the meeting itself
* 57:00 When relationships are asymmetrical
* 1:03:00 When company executives get threatened by genuine relating

Listen to the Podcast
Explore Additional Resources

* Organizational Culture And Leadership Institute
* Humble Leadership by Ed Schein and Peter Schein

 
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6 years ago
1 hour 13 minutes 14 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 99: Resilience And Racialized Body Trauma With Diane Woods

First, let’s get one thing out of the way. Understanding trauma and how it functions is scientifically sound, empirically useful, and one of the most effective ways to develop to your full potential.
The great challenge of adulthood is embracing complexity. We do this by taking on multiple perspectives in our minds and building this capacity into our hearts and bodies.
Nowhere is this challenge more evident to me in the United States than in the area of cultural and racial conflict. Even those of us who are doing our best to create a better future have a lot of growing up to do.
You know what’s great about growing up? When we do it, the benefits accrue in all areas of life.
That’s why I think that reframing how we approach race and culture isn’t only about black and white. It also yields benefits in whatever context we choose to lead.
Sure, you could use what you learn about leadership from organizational life to make a contribution to our societal struggle with race, but this also works in reverse. The cauldron of racial relations can foster skills and qualities you need to show up at your best in organizations—and in your family and community.
I’ve had several guides in this journey. One is leadership coach and retired executive, Diane Woods. Last year, we discussed why it’s important to talk about racist ideas rather than racist people and how combatting racism is in whites’ self-interest. My mind is still stretching from that conversation.
This week, Diane asks us all to try on a very different, albeit compatible, lens for understanding our experiences in this area. Drawing upon Resmaa Menakem’s book My Grandmother’s Hands:Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies, Diane invites us to place the body—its trauma and its resilience—at the center of this story.
What if we set aside the patterned roles of victim, persecutor and rescuer in favor of a more complex body-centered understanding? What if, instead of either rationalizing racist behavior or demonizing each other, we did the following:

* Set clear boundaries around racist words and behaviors
* Understood racism as multigenerational trauma—black body trauma, white body trauma, and police officer body trauma?

As she did before, Diane speaks from her own experience, informed by her extensive reading, and in a way that invites us all to take a second look at our own lives and family’s experiences.
Highlights

* 7:50 We’re in love with our minds & stop at the chin or neck
* 15:00 Black and white bodies carry unresolved trauma between generations
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22:00 When people we love tell their stories, our anxiety and pain has meaning

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25:30 Dirty pain versus clean pain

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30:00 Indigestion leads to self-soothing—healthy or harmful

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32:20 “When the ouch in my body stayed three months”

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34:00 When I know my value, my capacity to bounce back is deeper

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39:30 We don’t have to condone racist behaviors to have a compassionate stance


Listen to the Podcast
Explore Additional Resources

* My Grandmother’s Hands:Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem
* Diane Woods’s web site

 

First, let’s get one thing out of the way. Understanding trauma and how it functions is scientifically sound, empirically useful,
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6 years ago
44 minutes 8 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 98: Why Enneagram Types Matter With Roxanne Howe-Murphy

The first time Roxanne Howe-Murphy and I planned to discuss the Enneagram, we were interrupted by an election. So we explored how to heal from Trump Shock (for those needing such healing).
Life gives second chances.
This week Roxanne and I took one such opportunity and ran with it.
The Enneagram is a system for personal and professional development I’ve been using for twenty years. It informs my coaching and, increasingly, my work with leadership teams.
There are nine Enneagram styles or types. Each provides a different answer to the question: What makes me tick?
Walking through all nine types is a big task. Roxanne and I chose instead to explore what is both the most practical and existential question about the Enneagram: why does it matter? What difference does it make when growing yourself to understand your Enneagram type? What difference does it make when coaching or managing someone else to understand theirs? And for those involved in parenting or mentoring kids, how can you shoot yourself in the foot by treating all kids the same, rather than personalizing to what makes each child tick?
Roxanne is a wise and warm presence. I invite you to grab a cup of tea and listen in.
Highlights

* 4:30 That time Roxanne mis-typed herself
* 14:00 Enneagram versus Myers-Briggs
* 22:00 Learning your type makes your goals more true for you
* 28:00 You share this way of being with 800 million other people
* 33:00 A leader who didn’t trust herself
* 44:00 What if you coached a Type Six as if they were you, a Type Nine?
* 49:30 “I don’t recognize this child. He is so unlike me!”
* 1:02:00 Our degree of presence matters

Listen to the Podcast
Explore Additional Resources

* Roxanne Howe-Murphy and the Deep Living Institute
* Deep Coaching Institute, an Enneagram coaching school
* Deep Living: Transforming Your Relationship To Everything That Matters Through The Enneagram by Roxanne Howe-Murphy
* Deep Coaching: Using The Enneagram As A Catalyst For Profound Change by Roxanne Howe-Murphy
* My interviews with Susanne Cook-Greuter and Jennifer Garvey-Berger on stages of adult development and their relevance to leadership


The first time Roxanne Howe-Murphy and I planned to discuss the Enneagram, we were interrupted by an election. So we explored how to heal from Trump Shock (for those needing such healing).
Life gives second chances.
This week Roxanne and I took one such opportunity and ran with it.
The Enneagram is a system for personal and professional development I’ve been using for twenty years. It informs my coaching and, increasingly, my work with leadership teams.
There are nine Enneagram styles or types. Each provides a different answer to the question: What makes me tick?
Walking through all nine types is a big task. Roxanne and I chose instead to explore what is both the most practical and existential question about the Enneagram: why does it matter?
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6 years ago
1 hour 7 minutes 48 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 97: Spiral Dynamics With Jon Freeman

Waiting four years to discuss Spiral Dynamics on my podcast is like waiting that long on a show about desserts before bringing up chocolate.
Yes, Cindy Wigglesworth used Spiral Dynamics to help us make sense of the 2016 U.S. Presidential election, but this week is our first in-depth exploration.
And I’m excited to share it.
Spiral Dynamics is my go-to framework for understanding politics, global events, cultural evolution, and the many big challenges we face as a people and planet. It also explains what happens inside of large organizations, a place where I do most of my coaching and consulting. Whether the topic is global climate change, right wing nationalism, competing economic theories, or race and culture, Spiral Dynamics gives me a way to understand the core worldviews that animate everyday conversations.
That’s why Spiral Dynamics is called the “master code” or code of all codes.
To illuminate this framework, I spoke with Jon Freeman, who, after a long business career, discovered Spiral Dynamics and became one of its leading teachers.
Highlights

* 9:30 Small bands roaming the savannah to warlord gangs to rule-bound towns—and beyond
* 14:30 The worldviews dominant within big companies and organizations
* 25:30 Why you want all worldviews present in organizations
* 31:00 Reinterpreting the 2008 financial crisis through the Spiral
* 39:00 The dangers of ignoring the virtues of Blue rules
* 50:00 Why the U.S. underestimated China
* 56:30 Humanity prepares for a momentous leap—the shift to second tier
* 1:03:00 Reinventing Blue order in big corporations
* 1:08:00 The rise of mafia enterprises and right wing nationalism
* 1:15:00 Brexit, immigration, and complexity
* 1:19:00 Climate change, clean tech, and Spiral Wizards in a time of catastrophe

Listen to the Podcast
Overview of Spiral Dynamics

Explore Additional Resources

* Jon Freeman’s web site, Spiral Futures
* Jon’s upcoming workshop in London
* Free webinars introducing Spiral Dynamics
* Future Considerations, a consultancy through which Jon does consulting
* My podcast interview with Teresa Woodland about China, leadership, and cross-cultural complexity

 

Waiting four years to discuss Spiral Dynamics on my podcast is like waiting that long on a show about desserts before bringing up chocolate.
Yes, Cindy Wigglesworth used Spiral Dynamics to help us make sense of the 2016 U.S. Presidential election, but this week is our first in-depth exploration.
And I’m excited to share it.
Spiral Dynamics is my go-to framework for understanding politics, global events, cultural evolution, and the many big challenges we face as a people and planet. It also explains what happens inside of large organizations, a place where I do most of my coaching and consulting. Whether the topic is global climate change, right wing nationalism, competing economic theories, or race and culture, Spiral Dynamics gives me a way to understand the core worldviews that animate everyday conversations.
That’s why Spiral Dynamics is called the “master code” or code of all codes.
To illuminate this framework, I spoke with Jon Freeman, who,
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6 years ago
1 hour 29 minutes 15 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 96: Three Ways To Be Happy (3-Minute Thursday)

Three ways to be happy is the topic of today’s 3-minute Thursday.
My inspiration is Martin Seligman’s classic book, Authentic Happiness, which helped me cope through hard times and find joy and freedom in good times.
Seligman describes the pleasure life, the engaged life, and the meaningful life. What are these and why do they matter?
Listen in as I walk you through these three forms of happiness with examples from my own experience.
All in 3-minutes. So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast
 

Three ways to be happy is the topic of today’s 3-minute Thursday.
My inspiration is Martin Seligman’s classic book, Authentic Happiness, which helped me cope through hard times and find joy and freedom in good times.
Seligman describes the pleasure life, the engaged life, and the meaningful life. What are these and why do they matter?
Listen in as I walk you through these three forms of happiness with examples from my own experience.
All in 3-minutes. So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast
 
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6 years ago
4 minutes 9 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 95: The Clean Tech Edge With Ron Pernick

The story of clean technology is invigorating. The story of global climate change is sobering. What quality of mind and what forms of deliberate practice are needed to hold both stories in place simultaneously—and remain mostly sane?
I think about this question when I read about extreme temperatures, massive flooding, and drought…and then get in my all electric Nissan Leaf that is powered by PV solar panels on the roof of our home and drive by one of Portland’s many LEED Platinum green buildings.
It is exciting to witness the signs of technological progress yet frightening to experience the early days of what could be climate catastrophe.
Things are getting better and things are getting worse.
To make sense of this paradox, I’ve scheduled a series of interviews with thought leaders in sustainable enterprise, global climate change, and clean technology.
To launch the series, I speak this week with the person arguably most responsible for defining the contours of the clean technology economy, Ron Pernick, cofounder of Clean Edge and coauthor of Clean Tech Revolution and Clean Tech Nation.
Intrigued?
Join us for this conversation, and let me know what you think.
Highlights

* 8:30 Diplomats discard the term “clean tech,” and Ron picks it up
* 13:00 Ron creates the first clean tech stock index, and Nasdaq wants in
* 26:00 Why Portland ranked high on the metro index of clean tech
* 31:00 All electric SUVs are coming soon, and why it’s taken a while
* 37:00 Clean tech needs to be better than what it is displacing
* 48:00 The political landscape around clean tech
* 1:00:00 Making sense of the 2018 IPCC report on climate change

Listen to the Podcast
Explore Additional Resources

* Clean Edge
* Ron’s books, The Clean Tech Revolution and Clean Tech Nation
* The Nasdaq Clean Energy Green Energy Index (CELS)
* “Global Warming of 1.5 degrees C,” the October 2018 report of the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC)

 

The story of clean technology is invigorating. The story of global climate change is sobering. What quality of mind and what forms of deliberate practice are needed to hold both stories in place simultaneously—and remain mostly sane?
I think about this question when I read about extreme temperatures, massive flooding, and drought…and then get in my all electric Nissan Leaf that is powered by PV solar panels on the roof of our home and drive by one of Portland’s many LEED Platinum green buildings.
It is exciting to witness the signs of technological progress yet frightening to experience the early days of what could be climate catastrophe.
Things are getting better and things are getting worse.
To make sense of this paradox, I’ve scheduled a series of interviews with thought leaders in sustainable enterprise, global climate change, and clean technology.
To launch the series, I speak this week with the person arguably most responsible for defining the contours of the clean technology economy, Ron Pernick, cofounder of Clean Edge and coauthor of Clean Tech Revolution and Clean Tech Nation.
Intrigued?
Join us for this conversation,
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6 years ago
1 hour 13 minutes 18 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 94: You Can Practice Better Than That (3-Minute Thursday)

 
You can practice better than that.
Seriously.
It’s time to raise the bar in organizations around how we practice leadership.
That’s why we’ve looked at how to practice leadership directly and on-the-job.
But what, you might wonder, are these an alternative to? What are the most common current methods for improving as leaders?
Listen in as I walk you through three of these, why they fall short, and how what I’m proposing can replace or supplement them.
All in 3-minutes.
So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast

 
You can practice better than that.
Seriously.
It’s time to raise the bar in organizations around how we practice leadership.
That’s why we’ve looked at how to practice leadership directly and on-the-job.
But what, you might wonder, are these an alternative to? What are the most common current methods for improving as leaders?
Listen in as I walk you through three of these, why they fall short, and how what I’m proposing can replace or supplement them.
All in 3-minutes.
So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast
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6 years ago
5 minutes 9 seconds

The Amiel Show
Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps With Jennifer Garvey Berger (Episode 93)

Unlocking leadership mindtraps. Up for it?
I am.
This week I’m excited to share another mind-stretching conversation with adult development expert Jennifer Garvey Berger.
We discuss her new, shorter, faster, and easier book Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps: How To Thrive In Complexity. Once again, Jennifer helps me unpack, unlock and uncover some of the biggest questions in the field of leadership development. Our intent, as always, is to find simplicity on the other side of complexity, a.k.a. grow a little bit today so we can grow even a little bit more tomorrow.
My favorite part is our discussion of what Jennifer calls “simple stories,” something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately, particularly in the context of global climate change. (No, snow and cold temperatures don’t mean the overall temperature of the planet isn’t increasing. Yes, it makes a devilishly simple story. No, people who swear by this story are not bad people. Yes, you can learn to see them as heroes in their own story. No, your doing this won’t magically reduce carbon emissions. Yes, it’s still a healthy act for you and the rest of us. But I digress…)
Join me for this invigorating conversation.
Highlights

* 8:00 Jennifer gets asked, “How can I do this faster?”
* 12:00 The five most dangerous and most escapable mindtraps
* 17:00 “This is who I am. Don’t mess with me.”
* 20:30 A simple story about Brexit involving bananas
* 29:00 We soothe ourselves by knowing the odds
* 34:00 Ask “How is this person [I’m aggravated by] a hero?”
* 41:30 Jennifer plays a game with clients: let’s create three simple stories
* 52:30 Simple stories Jennifer has told herself about her experiences with her kids
* 1:02:00 Mindtraps in the transition from socialized mind to self-authored mind
* 1:08:00 Simple stories about the amazing leader who must have been born that way

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Explore Additional Resources

* Jennifer Garvey Berger and Cultivating Leadership
* Jennifer’s new book, Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps: How To Thrive In Complexity
* My previous interviews with Jennifer about her books Changing On The Job and Simple Habits for Complex Times

 

Unlocking leadership mindtraps. Up for it?
I am.
This week I’m excited to share another mind-stretching conversation with adult development expert Jennifer Garvey Berger.
We discuss her new, shorter, faster, and easier book Unlocking Leadership Mindtraps: How To Thrive In Complexity. Once again, Jennifer helps me unpack, unlock and uncover some of the biggest questions in the field of leadership development. Our intent, as always, is to find simplicity on the other side of complexity, a.k.a. grow a little bit today so we can grow even a little bit more tomorrow.
My favorite part is our discussion of what Jennifer calls “simple stories,” something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately, particularly in the context of global climate change. (No,
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6 years ago
1 hour 15 minutes 41 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 92: Practicing Leadership On-The-Job (3-Minute Thursday)

(Delayed due to technical glitch. The gorilla sat on my media server. I swear.)
Practicing leadership on the job.
It’s the single best way to improve what you do and who you are becoming as a leader.
Practicing leadership on the job involves learning while you work.
This is different from practicing leadership directly, the subject of episode 90. Instead of stepping outside the flow of work to focus 100% on improvement, practicing leadership on the job means you develop and work at the same time.
I call this the On-The-Job-Practice Cycle. It involves four steps:

* Prepare
* Act
* Reflect
* Get Feedback

Listen in as I walk you through these four steps.
All in 3-minutes.
So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast
 

(Delayed due to technical glitch. The gorilla sat on my media server. I swear.)
Practicing leadership on the job.
It’s the single best way to improve what you do and who you are becoming as a leader.
Practicing leadership on the job involves learning while you work.
This is different from practicing leadership directly, the subject of episode 90. Instead of stepping outside the flow of work to focus 100% on improvement, practicing leadership on the job means you develop and work at the same time.
I call this the On-The-Job-Practice Cycle. It involves four steps:

* Prepare
* Act
* Reflect
* Get Feedback

Listen in as I walk you through these four steps.
All in 3-minutes.
So you can stop listening—and start practicing.
Listen to the Podcast
 
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6 years ago
3 minutes 38 seconds

The Amiel Show
Episode 91: Agile Leadership With Jonathan Reams

Agile Leadership.
The word “agility” has many meanings. As kids, we prided ourselves on being physically agile at sports–or disappointed by our lack of agility. In software, agile is a methodology and set of principles for producing products and engaging teams. What about in leadership?
This week’s guest, Jonathan Reams, joins me to explore agile leadership.
Over 15 years ago, Jonathan and I met when matched together to organize “integral gatherings” in San Francisco involving several hundred people. He soon moved east to Norway, and I moved north to Portland. His move was much farther!
Jonathan once drove a dump truck. Now he teaches at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology, edits the online journal, Integral Review (which I’ve read for years), and is co-founder of the European Center for Leadership Practice. I’m not sure whether his first career or his current one require more agility, but clearly the forms of agility are very different.
What is agile leadership? How can we use Ken Wilber’s four quadrants, developmental stages, and the Goldilocks Zone to understand it? How is elegantly simple different from simplistic? What happens when great cognitive agility causes harm?
Please share with friends and let me know what you think.
Highlights
As the saying goes, “this space intentionally left blank.”
This week. As an experiment.
Do you wish this included time-stamped topics? Then shoot me an email at amiel@amielhandelsman.com and tell me why. I love feedback!
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Explore Additional Resources

* Jonathan’s online space–writings, videos, consulting, etc.
* Chris Argyris’s Ladder of Inference
* Arbinger Institute, publisher of Leadership and Self-Deception

 

Agile Leadership.
The word “agility” has many meanings. As kids, we prided ourselves on being physically agile at sports–or disappointed by our lack of agility. In software, agile is a methodology and set of principles for producing products and engaging teams. What about in leadership?
This week’s guest, Jonathan Reams, joins me to explore agile leadership.
Over 15 years ago, Jonathan and I met when matched together to organize “integral gatherings” in San Francisco involving several hundred people. He soon moved east to Norway, and I moved north to Portland. His move was much farther!
Jonathan once drove a dump truck. Now he teaches at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology, edits the online journal, Integral Review (which I’ve read for years), and is co-founder of the European Center for Leadership Practice. I’m not sure whether his first career or his current one require more agility, but clearly the forms of agility are very different.
What is agile leadership? How can we use Ken Wilber’s four quadrants, developmental stages, and the Goldilocks Zone to understand it? How is elegantly simple different from simplistic? What happens when great cognitive agility causes harm?
Please share with friends and let me know what you think.
Highlights
As the saying goes, “this space intentionally left blank.”
This week. As an experiment.
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6 years ago
1 hour 17 minutes 6 seconds

The Amiel Show
The Amiel Show provides people who are hungry to grow as leaders and human beings with cutting-edge conversations about leadership. What's the one skill or quality you can improve that will build your public identity as a competent and trusted leader? What does it take to manage your commitments to yourself and others so that you produce better results with less stress? How can brain science inform how you develop people and organizations? What becomes possible when you reframe organizational politics as the practice of understanding and aligning with others' interests and concerns? How can you make your conversations and meetings more powerful and impactful?

Join Amiel Handelsman, executive coach and author of Practice Greatness: Escape Small Thinking, Listen Like A Master, And Lead With Your Best, as he explores these questions with seasoned executives and pragmatic thought leaders.

For all past episodes, visit www.amielhandelsman.com