
In this powerful and vulnerable episode, Joel is joined by his wife Rachel Warneking to explore what recovery looks like—not just for the one struggling with addiction, but for the spouse who never saw this story coming. While previous episodes have focused on the recovery process from the perspective of the addicted partner, this conversation shifts the lens to the often-overlooked journey of the betrayed spouse.Rachel shares her own story of betrayal trauma, the disorienting impact of discovery, and the profound need for safety, stability, and presence in the aftermath. Together, Joel and Rachel unpack the relational cost of addiction, the importance of honest disclosure, and why recovery within marriage must include both voices and both hearts.Whether you’re a husband in recovery, a wife walking through the pain of betrayal, or a leader walking alongside couples, this episode offers a deeply human look at what it takes to rebuild trust, reality, and intimacy—together.