Is it only cheating if it’s physical, or does emotional and digital loyalty count too? In this episode of The 3L’s Podcast, we get brutally honest about what really defines betrayal in modern relationships. From harmless work friendships that blur into “work wife” territory, to sexting, nudes, and emotional affairs that never get physical but still break trust, we unpack it all. We dive deep into monogamy, the “men will stray” argument, and double standards that excuse male infidelity while condemning women for the same behaviour. We also explore how routine, boredom, and lack of communication can quietly destroy intimacy, and how therapy, honesty, and intentional connection can save a marriage long before cheating ever happens. Mimi and Eman share real-life examples from their own relationship: rebuilding excitement after kids, setting healthy boundaries with the opposite sex, and protecting your marriage like it’s your first ministry. Because the truth is, most affairs don’t start in the bedroom; they start in the DMs, over “innocent” banter, or through unmet needs that no one talked about. Whether you’re dating, married, or healing from betrayal, this episode will make you think about what loyalty really means in 2025.