In this raw, funny and heartfelt episode of The 3L’s Podcast (Life, Love & Legacy), Eman & Mimi get real about attraction in long-term marriage, from being friends first to that unexpected “switch” moment in church, to the messy middle of post-baby body changes, confidence dips, and intimacy on pause. We unpack how personality can amplify physical attraction, why reassurance isn’t a one-off speech but a daily habit, and the small, practical things couples can do to keep choosing each other, 14 years in and counting. We also tackle a real listener dilemma: “My wife gained weight after kids, and I’m not attracted anymore, what do I do?” We don’t sugarcoat it. We talk about support vs. shaming, how to communicate without crushing her confidence, and why attraction is multi-channel (voice, kindness, presence, humour, not just bum and breast 🤭). If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt “not like myself,” Mimi shares her micro-routine for rebuilding confidence (dress the body you have, a touch of glam on low-energy days, and throwing out the oversized hoodies that hide your shine). Eman breaks down the exact phrases and consistent actions that helped, affirmation, patience, and celebrating effort over outcomes. We also cover health goals as a team sport, accountability without control, and remembering that respect and friendship keep desire alive when physical appearances change.   💌 Send us your dilemmas & questions! ✨ Subscribe for more episodes on love, marriage, money & building a lasting legacy! Apple Music: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-3ls-podcast/id1613116517 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2UEP7loqImW1ZtbYbFSAoT?si=7h9C7Gl6QYK_zSYx0U8ivg